Does your boyfriend secretly hate you?



Key to a healthy state of mind is being in healthy relationships. One of the primary aspect to a healthy relationship is healthy and proper communication.

Healthy Communication

The very basis of a healthy relationship is open, honest and safe communication. In order to achieve such a state of communication, one must ensure that there is establishment of a completely safe space that avoids all sorts of judgement. In order get started, both the people involved should be aware of the needs of the each other, they should be mindful of expectations of each other. You can reach on this mutual point of awareness only if you communicate efficiently. The following tips can help you and your partner create and maintain a healthy relationship by establishing a healthy communication system:

  • Speak Up. Nobody is a psychic and can’t understand what is it that is going on in one’s mind. You should be open and clear with things, even if something is bothering you it is beneficial to let it out.
  • Respect Each Other. No matter how much your thoughts differ, it is necessary to understand that your values and feeling matter and are equally important, therefore mutual respect is very essential.
  • It is true that you will not be on the same page about everything and there will be a lot of disagreements, but these are not setbacks rather a challenge where you need to find the common ground and face it together.
  • Be Supportive. It’s necessary to be there for each other when you hit the rock bottom. A healthy relationship is about building each other up and sticking by each other’s side in difficult times.
  • Respect Each Other’s Privacy. There will be somethings that will be off-limits especially in a new relationship. It is advisable to a person to provide their partner their space.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you have a boyfriend?

    • We are 8 months already.
    • Still dating.
    • I just broke up with him yesterday.
    • Yes and it is kind of secret.
  • Question of

    Do you often date?

    • Once a week.
    • Like everyday because he always misses me.
    • We seldom see each other.
    • We are living together.
  • Question of

    What  is the usual reason for your fights?

    • Jealousy.
    • Some petty arguments about silly jokes.
    • I don’t have a boyfriend.
    • We don’t fight.
  • Question of

    Who usually talks first after an argument?

    • Depends in whose fault it is.
    • Me because I can’t stand the silence.
    • My boyfriend because I can endure without talking for a hundred years if it is not my fault.
    • Both of us.
  • Question of

    Do you like cuddling each other?

    • We are not the affectionate type.
    • Everytime we see each other.
    • Kind of during our monthsaries and anniversaries.
    • Nope. We don’t do that.
  • Question of

    Do you often get flowers and chocolate?

    • I seldom received them.
    • Always when we are dating.
    • Only chocolate because I am allergic to flower.
    • I usually get teddy bears.
  • Question of

    Have you plan on marrying?

    • Yes after a year.
    • Not in our plans yet.
    • Maybe but we will be into that soon.
    • I don’t have a serious relation.
  • Question of

    Do you want babies?

    • A great achievement for us couple.
    • I am still conceiving for a healthy baby boy.
    • Too expensive.
    • Of course.
  • Question of

    When you’re talking to him, what is his body language?

    • He is facing your direction but not completely. He makes eye contact with you and smiles.
    • He’s not facing you, but he makes eye contact and will smile occasionally
    • He’s faced completely away, does not make eye contact, and will occasionally smile
    • He’s not facing you or making eye contact with you, but he’s laughing and smiling
  • Question of

    Does he flirt with other girls?

    • No, he doesn’t flirt at all, even with me.
    • Occasionally, but it’s hard to tell if it’s actually flirting. He’ll smile and compliment them but it wont really be flirting.
    • Yes! All the time–ugh!
    • Nope, I don’t think so. He saves that for me 😉
  • Question of

    Does he make fun of you?

    • In a playful, loving type of way maybe?
    • Yeah, at first it was funny,now it’s starting to get on my nerves.
    • Yes, soooooo annoying
    • Sometimes, but it’s always loving and fun. I make fun of him in that way too 🙂
  • Question of

    How often do you guys talk?

    • Occasionally, but usually it’s to make fun of me or just talk about useless things
    • He kind of avoids me, but when I do see him, he doesn’t talk that much to me. Unless it’s to make rude, biting remarks.
    • Not very often. I always get the feeling that he doesn’t want to be talking to me, so I lay off.
    • Sometimes… and usually it’s friendly but he always gets called away by one of his friends
  • Question of

    Do his guy friends like you?

    • I guess they do.
    • I don’t know?? They don’t really make an effort to get to know me. They seem nice though.
    • Yeah, we’re practically bffs!
    • I wouldn’t say they don’t like me, but they don’t like me either
  • Question of

    If you guys were in a room alone, what would you do?

    • Just kind of sit there awkwardly.
    • Have a conversation but then it quickly dies out
    • Not really say anything, but if you tried to talk to him he wouldn’t really say anything
    • Hate on each other.
  • Question of

    Do you pretend that you hate him?

    • No, he totally knows that i like him, but he doesn’t really respond.
    • Yes, I do, but I totally like him…
    • Yes, and every time i think about it it makes me cry because i don’t actually hate him
    • Sometimes

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