Does your long distance best friend like you? (Girls Only)


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Let’s start off easy- How often do you guys text/call?

    • At least once a week!
    • Often! But definitely not every day!
    • Every single day!
    • Rarely at all!
    • Whenever we aren’t busy!
  • Question of

    Do you guys ever do video calls? (FaceTime, Houseparty, Skype, Duo, etc)

    • Of course! But only sometimes!
    • Only if we are playing video games together!
    • Yes! Almost every day! (sometimes even during school/work)
    • We’ve talked on video maybe once or twice!
    • Not at all! He/I don’t like video calls!
  • Question of

    Does he often ask you random questions?

    • Yes sir! I get asked a question often!
    • Yes! It always feels like he is interrogating me!
    • He only does to start conversation!
    • He often will ask me something about myself!
    • No, he never asks questions at random!
  • Question of

    When you two talk, who initiates the conversation?

    • It’s about 25/75!
    • It’s about 50/50!
    • I do!
    • We don’t talk all that often!
    • He does!
  • Question of

    Does he ever complimented you on your appearance and/or personality?

    • Yes! Nearly every day!
    • Rarely, maybe only like, once!
    • He has quite a few times!
    • He does from time to time!
    • He’s never complimented me before!
  • Question of

    Does he ever asks for pictures of your beautiful face?

    • Yes he does! It makes him feel happy!
    • Only to see what I looked like!
    • He has maybe once or twice!
    • He does every now and then!
    • No! That’s kind of creepy!
  • Question of

    Is he comfortable sharing how he is feeling with you?

    • He feels mostly comfortable! Some things are too private to share!
    • He will share sometimes, but never anything to out of the ordinary!
    • He kind of feels comfortable sharing how he is feeling!
    • Yes he does! He talks about how he feels all the time!
    • He doesn’t feel very comfortable talking to me about his feelings!
  • Question of

    Has he talked to you about very personal things?

    • Yes! I know everything!
    • He’s told me some things about his personal life!
    • He’s told me a couple things!
    • He’s talked about quite a few things!
    • He’s never told me anything/maybe only one thing!
  • Question of

    Has he ever talked about coming to meet you someday?

    • Nope! I don’t think he is interested in meeting me!
    • Not really, he has mentioned it once or twice!
    • Sort of, he mentions it and it’ll lead to a long conversation!
    • Yes, he always talks to me about it!
    • Yes, he already has it all planned out!
  • Question of

    Last but not least, on a scale from 1-100, how confident are you that he does in fact, like you?

    • Below 29
    • 30-49
    • 50-69
    • 90-100
    • 70-89
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    How often do you guys talk?

    • Whenever i see him
    • Occasionally
    • All the time
    • Barely ever
    • Try never, im way too shy
    • Once or twice
  • Question of

    Does he have any idea that you like him?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m pretty sure he knows
    • I would never tell him that i like him
  • Question of

    Why do you like this boy?

    • Hes sweet, cute, and im pretty sure he likes me
    • He’s very cute
    • I love his personality
    • He’s just amazing in every little way
    • I don’t know
    • He’s got alot of money, and dresses nice
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes you at all ?

    • As a friend, i guess
    • Yes. a little
    • No, thats why im taking this test
    • It’s pretty obvious, but i have to make sure
    • In my dreams.
  • Question of

    How long have you known him

    • A day or two
    • couple years
    • a few months
    • Not very well
    • Since we we’re little kids
  • Question of

    Have you guys ever?

    • Kissed
    • Hugged
    • Held hands
    • No, we havn’t done any of those
    • Hung out one on one
    • All of the above
  • Question of

    Is there much of an age difference?

    • a year
    • 2 years
    • a couple months
    • 3 years
    • 4 – 20 years
  • Question of

    Have you ever told someone you loved them, ( family members don’t count)

    • Yes, but i regret it
    • Yes, not like i meant it
    • No, those are strong words
    • I do all the time
    • Once in a blue moon, only if i really mean it
    • No, never I’m too shy
  • Question of

    Lust, or Love?

    • Love
    • Lust
    • Neither
    • Depends
  • Question of

    When you guys are talking, ( if you guys talk,) do you make eye contact

    • Sometimes are eyes meet, but we quickly look away
    • Yes
    • Not very often
    • We dont talk
    • I dont think so, maybe somtimes
  • Question of

    Do you believe in long distance relationships?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I think they could work out if you really love the person
    • That never works..
  • Question of

    Short term, or long term relationships?

    • Short, i get bored easy
    • Short
    • Long, they have more meaning
    • Long

Are you two meant to be?

Will Our Long Distance Relationship Work?