How Dateable Are You?

 

 

In today’s world, we often fail to see the inner beauty of a person. We are constantly looking out for physical features when we are selecting our soulmate. It is true that biologically we are attracted to people with certain physical features but the problem is that it doesn’t last long and the only thing which persists is inner beauty.

Instead of falling in love with the body, we should fall in love with the soul. If we fail in doing this then sooner or later that relationship is going to die out. A famous Greek philosopher once said that “The hottest romance has the coldest endings”. I think it pretty much sums up what we are trying to establish here.

Over the past few decades, you might have seen a spike in the number of cosmetic surgeries. I just don’t get this why does a person need to change his/her physical features. The reason I could come up with is that we are told by those Instagram models and actors how our body should look like. We don’t realize the fact that they put extraordinary efforts in maintaining that kind of physique and also they use a ton of cosmetic products, and the costliest ones by the way, make them look so good. It is simply not possible for a common person and we should not buy into this. We should accept the fact that we are commonly looking for.

Our looks should not define who we are rather our actions and choices. If we don’t realize it then these companies and celebs will not stop and continue promoting shit.I hope you liked my short article. If you have any further insights into the topic then feel free to share it down in the comments section below. Play the quiz as well and don’t forget to share it with your friends and family. I hope to see you in my next article.

“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.”
― Greg Behrendt

“I’m about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.”
― Greg Behrendt

“Well?” Ron said finally, looking up at Harry. “How was it?”
Harry considered it for a moment. “Wet,” he said truthfully.
Ron made a noise that might have indicated jubilation or disgust, it was hard to tell.
“Because she was crying,” Harry continued heavily.
“Oh,” said Ron, his smile faded slightly. “Are you that bad at kissing?”
“Dunno,” said Harry, who hadn’t considered this, and immediately felt rather worried. “Maybe I am.”
― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

“People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you.”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    When meeting someone new, you tend to _____.

    • Make the first move! I’m good at starting conversation.
    • Be polite
    • Get shy
    • Get awkwardly shy and come off like I don’t care
  • Question of

    How much texting is too much texting?

    • Anything that makes the other person uncomfortable
    • Texting multiple times a day, every day–sometimes you just need to check in every so often.
    • I tend to text a handful of times a day, but that’s too much for some people.
    • Any amount of texting–I don’t text.
  • Question of

    Do you lead a life filled with work, family, friends, and hobbies?

    • Yes
    • Maybe not as many hobbies as I could have…
    • Decently so–I should hang out with my friends more.
    • I basically have no life. I work and I kind of sleep and eat.
  • Question of

    Do you love yourself?

    • Yes
    • Yes, but sometimes I don’t.
    • I definitely need to work on that.
  • Question of

    Are you confident?

    • Yes
    • Could be better
    • Not at all
  • Question of

    Do you hang out with a bunch of embarrassing people?

    • No
    • Yes
    • I hand out with no one, basically
  • Question of

    How often do you go out alone?

    • Very often
    • Not as often
    • Never
    • I don’t really go out unless I have to, like for work.
  • Question of

    Select the word that best describes your style:

    • Laid-back
    • Trendy
    • Comfortable
    • Uhh, I have no style…
  • Question of

    Select the word that best describes your personality:

    • Outgoing
    • Funny
    • Calm
    • Shy
  • Question of

    When you go on a date, are you early, late, or on time?

    • On time
    • Early
    • Late
    • Well sometimes I kind of… don’t show up!
  • Question of

    Do you ask people out?

    • Yes
    • Sometimes
    • Never
  • Question of

    How do you handle drama?

    • I override it with humor, so it doesn’t happen!
    • I give in a little, but I don’t let it get far at all–ever.
    • It depends what kind of drama it is. If it’s super serious, then I handle it poorly.
    • I handle all drama very poorly.
  • Question of

    Where do you like to hang out?

    • The bookstore
    • The coffee shop
    • The video game shop
    • At home
  • Question of

    What music do you gravitate to?

    • All kinds
    • Mainly the stuff on the radio and a little bit of everything else
    • Just specific genres, like trance, or indie, or classic rock
    • I like classical.
  • Question of

    Why did your last partner break up with you?

    • My partner didn’t want a long, serious relationship.
    • The person was filled with issues, like confidence issues. It wasn’t really because of me.
    • I treated them poorly.
    • I didn’t treat them poorly, but they complained about who I was and what I do.

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