How deep is your love?


“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde Little Women

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake The Lucky One

“When you say “I” and “my” too much, you lose the capacity to understand the “we” and “our”.”
Steve Maraboli, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, Heart of the Matter

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, I Had a Dream About You

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.”
Shannon Alder, I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What is a good indicator of chemistry?

    • Being able to finish each other’s sentences.
    • Spending hours on the phone talking with your guy.
    • Being unable to keep your hands off of your man.
  • Question of

    Which statement best characterizes your relationship?

    • We often argue about where things are headed.
    • We are both equally committed to making it work, and have similar feelings about where it is headed
    • Though we may have different feelings about where things are headed, we’re both pretty happy with it so far.
  • Question of

    When you raise an issue you feel is important, your partner typically…

    • Reacts in unpredictable ways.
    • Stops what he’s doing to discuss it until we reach a resolution.
    • Gets annoyed or angry at me for bringing it up.
  • Question of

    When he/she raises an issue he/she feels is important, YOU typically…

    • Stop what your am doing and discuss it until you both reach a resolution.
    • Ask him/her if you could discuss it later.
    • React in various ways, depending on your mood.
  • Question of

    Which statement is closest to the truth?

    • Part of me is a little jealous and suspicious when he mentions a female acquaintance.(or visa versa)
    • I have other male friends and he has other female friends. We trust each other completely.(or visa versa)
    • Cheating on him is the last thing I can imagine doing, but I am not so sure about my partner.
  • Question of

    When you have to cancel on a planned night out with your partner, he/she usually…

    • Quickly makes plans and goes out with friends.
    • Accepts and gets over it.
    • Gets angry and does the same to you next time.
  • Question of

    You like it when romance feels…

    • Mysterious and unpredictable.
    • Like a minor undercurrent in your life.
    • Steady and obviously going somewhere.
  • Question of

    Typically, you like to make up after a fight by..

    • Forgive yet dwell over it
    • Forgive and Forget
    • Talk about it
  • Question of

    When it comes to telling your lover about your life, you…

    • Prefer to keep it all private.
    • Can’t wait to spill everything, even about the broken fingernail.
    • Like to share daily events, but not the fingernail report.
  • Question of

    Your idea of the perfect Valentine’s Day gift is…

    • A sweater that your beloved knit by hand.
    • A pink teddy bear wearing a heart-studded T-shirt that says ‘I love you beary, beary much.’
    • A silk kimono.
  • Question of

    There is a thin line between love and hate. Do you sometimes feel super in love with this person even when you’re mad at them?

    • I don’t see how that’s possible.
    • Maybe for a second, but usually I just feel mad.
    • Sometimes I do.
    • Sure, all the time
  • Question of

    When you see yourself as an old person, is your love always by your side?

    • Sometimes I picture myself alone.
    • Sometimes I picture myself with someone else.
    • Pretty much always
    • Of course
  • Question of

    You’re at a wedding reception and your love is an awful dancer, would you still go out on the floor with them?

    • No way
    • I would if it would be awkward not to.
    • I would do a few dances with them.
    • Sure, I would dance with them all night.
  • Question of

    You haven’t seen this person in days as you’ve been on a business trip, how do you feel when you first see them?

    • I feel good.
    • I feel really good.
    • I feel happy.
    • I get butterflies.
  • Question of

    Your lover seems to be flirting with your friend, how do you feel?

    • Angry, what a jerk
    • Jealous
    • Confused
    • Glad that they’re getting along
  • Question of

    How often do you worry about them dumping you?

    • Not much, I would be fine.
    • I worry sometimes.
    • I worry all the time.
    • Not much, we won’t split up.
  • Question of

    Does it bother you when they snore or fidget at night?

    • Yes, it drives me crazy.
    • It does some.
    • I can deal with it.
    • Not at all
  • Question of

    They had to go away on a short trip for work, how do you feel when they’re gone?

    • Happy, I need some me time.
    • I don’t care either way.
    • I miss them a little.
    • I miss them a lot.
  • Question of

    Your best friend tells you they can’t stand your lover, how do you handle it?

    • Dump my lover
    • Dump my best friend
    • Try and make them get along
    • Who cares? I don’t need everyone in my life to get along.
  • Question of

    You just found out that they’re just a little bit crazy in a certain way, what do you do?

    • Run
    • Encourage them to go to a counselor
    • Do my best to support them
    • Who cares? I am a little crazy, too.

How do you know you are in love? (Girls Only)

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