How Kinky Is Your Personality?

 

 

Relationship Management

 

Relationship management is the pinnacle of emotional intelligence. It requires that you use self-awareness, self-management, and social awareness in concert to better your relationships as you interact with other people. You cannot hope to get the most out of your interactions with other people until you understand your emotions, cue in to their emotions, and use this knowledge to adjust your approach on the fly. Women have a slight edge in relationship management for reasons described in the social awareness section above.

Emotional intelligence presents a significant advantage for women in the workplace. Whether you’re a man or a woman, don’t just sit back hoping that you’re one of the high-EQ types. EQ is a flexible skill that you can improve with effort. To that end, here are a few things that you can do to improve your EQ today:

“Tie me up, please…” Chantal said. They looked above at some vines and roots hanging down from the grassy area above the depression in the canal they were standing in. She was in his hands—he had to comply.

A little bit of kink was one of the most delicious of erotic pleasures. Catholic school girls were often the horniest—Brett could hardly contain his elation.”
― Jess C Scott, Catholic School Girls Rule

“Sex is as much about opening yourself and showing your sexuality to another human being as it is about allowing them to show you theirs. If you want your lover to expand their horizons with you, it’s vital that you give them the same courtesy of hearing their secrets without making them feel creepy about it.”
― Roberto Hogue, Real Secrets of Sex: A Women’s Guide on How to Be Good in Bed

“And while I do love coffee – both the scent…and the taste – I have no doubt I’d prefer the scent…and the taste…of something…more personal.”
― Skye Jordan, Reckless

“What was she going to do with two Drustans?
A kinky part of her proposed something unmentionable and rather fascinating. Really, if they were both him, it wouldn’t be like she was cheating on anyone.”
― Karen Marie Moning

“I saw two birds having dangerously kinky sex on the main road, while several cars ran above them just missing the sparrows’ toss and tumble fly away. The couple survived to try it again next season on a railway line!”
― Initially NO, Percipience: Outside the Range of Understood Sense


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    If you were interested in turning your partner on, would you ever consider doing a striptease?

    • I’m better than the pros.
    • I might be willing to give that a try.
    • What? No!
    • Are we at home or out somewhere?
  • Question of

    Have you ever requested some erotic photos from another person before?

    • All the time!
    • From my partner.
    • Why would I do that?
    • Not requested, but I’ve received some.
  • Question of

    If your partner wanted to use a ping pong paddle not so much for gaming, would you be down?

    • It was probably my idea.
    • Like paddling me? Maybe.
    • Let’s stick to gaming.
    • Maybe if I can use the paddle.
  • Question of

    When you want to set the mood, are you going to use some dirty talk?

    • When do I not use dirty talk?
    • If the mood is right.
    • I don’t feel comfortable doing that.
    • How dirty are we talking?
  • Question of

    Is getting tied up with a silk scarf the sort of thing you might try?

    • You better believe it.
    • I’m not sure if I’m down for being tied up.
    • That’s not what a scarf is for.
    • Never say never.
  • Question of

    So, uh, how well do you know the backseat of your car?

    • Extremely well.
    • I’ve been back there before.
    • Why would I sit in the back of my own car?
    • Not my car, but other cars in the past.
  • Question of

    What’s your opinion on handcuffs?

    • Ooh, fun!
    • Like fuzzy ones? Those seem cool.
    • They seem to help the police.
    • I could be talked into that.
  • Question of

    So about that shower—is it a place just for getting clean or is it also a place for getting dirty?

    • Definitely dirty.
    • Sometimes you can have fun in the shower.
    • Who even has room to do that in the shower?
    • I love shower fun!
  • Question of

    When you’re having some sexy fun times, do you take on a dominant role or do you find yourself being more submissive?

    • I like to switch it up.
    • I can be a little dominant.
    • I think it’s weird to take on roles like that.
    • I might be submissive now and then.
  • Question of

    Would you ever get frisky in the great outdoors?

    • Are you kidding? I love it!
    • Maye, if it was a private area.
    • Never!
    • Now that sounds enticing.
  • Question of

    Say you’re at a big family holiday gathering. Would you ever sneak off with your significant other to get a little naughty?

    • Heck yeah, I would.
    • Oh wow … I don’t know if I could risk it.
    • With family around? That’s inappropriate.
    • If there was a chance to get away, sure.
  • Question of

    Is it easy for you to talk to a partner about your likes and dislikes in the bedroom?

    • Of course. Communication is key.
    • It’s usually pretty easy.
    • Even though I know it’s necessary for enthusiastic consent, it’s hard for me.
    • If it’s a partner I trust.
  • Question of

    Do you have any fantasies you don’t feel comfortable sharing with others?

    • What’s the point if you don’t share?
    • One or two, for sure.
    • I don’t like to share things like that.
    • I guess it depends on who I’m sharing with.
  • Question of

    Does candle wax have a place in the bedroom?

    • Mmm, you bet.
    • Running down candles?
    • That’s too weird for me.
    • I’ve never tried that before, but maybe.
  • Question of

    Should ice cubes and sexy times ever cross paths?

    • Ice can be so much fun.
    • I like that sensation!
    • Who wants to be cold?
    • I’ve never tried, but I would.

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