How Many True Loves Will You Have in Your Life?

 

 

You might have noticed this peculiar thing either in your family or friends that people have had multiple “True Loves” throughout their lives. If you ask them then they would say that the previous ones were fake but the current one is real and it will last for a lifetime. You also might have seen people really getting confused as to why they are having multiple true loves at a single time. They really have a hard time understanding it and they often make their worst decisions of life.

The fact is that there is nothing called true love in my opinion. People experience love due to multiple reasons some of them are listed below.

1.Emotional Security

2.Intellectual compatibility

3.Sexual compatibility

4.Approval seeking

There might be multiple other reasons but these are some of the most common ones. Now what happens is that you might get emotional security from one person while you get intellectual compatibility from another person. You get confused since you are attracted to both of them and you feel that you have fallen in love with them at the same time. Now that goes against the definition of true love and you get frustrated as to what is going on in your life. You need to understand the aforementioned concept to get over it. You need to decide what are the things that you want from your partner. If you get to know it then only you will be able to better decide on what all is going on in your life.

Many people undergo bad relationships due to this very reason and you are better off once you know it.

The idea of true love comes from movies, TV shows, and media in general and we often feel guilty if we come to the realization that we multiple true loves at the same time or had them in the past. We don’t need to feel guilty for it since it can happen to anyone and it is pretty normal in my opinion. While I also suggest not to go on cheating justifying it with this reason.

“Love conquers all,” Aphrodite promised. “Look at Helen and Paris. Did they let anything come between them?”
“Didn’t they start the Trojan War and get thousands of people killed?”
“Pfft. That’s not the point. Follow your heart.”
― Rick Riordan, The Titan’s Curse

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It’s time to put an end to this. It’s time for us to let ourselves be loved.”
― C. JoyBell C.

“I’m about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.”
― Greg Behrendt

“They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can’t stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that’s a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it!”
― C. JoyBell C.

“There is no pretending”,Jace said with absolute clarity.”I love you,and I will love you until I die,and if there’s a life after that,I’ll love you then.”
She caught her breath.He had said it-the words there was no going back from.”
― Cassandra Clare, City of Glass

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Pick a flower.

    • Rose
    • Daisy
    • Tulip
    • Lily
    • None of these
  • Question of

    Are you (or have you ever been) married?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Have men ever fought over you?

    • Yes
    • Not that I can remember
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    How many people have you told “I love you” to?

    • One
    • Two or more
    • None
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Have you ever had a vacation fling?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    What romantic comedy character do you identify with?

    • The leading lady
    • Her best friend
    • The temptress
    • None of these
  • Question of

    Do you believe that there is one person out there for everybody?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Romeo and Juliet were…

    • Meant to be
    • Young and Dumb
    • Inspirational
    • None of these
  • Question of

    Are you a good kisser?

    • I think so
    • Absolutely
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Pick an actor…

    • Sean Connery
    • Benedict Cumberbatch
    • Daniel Craig
    • None of these
  • Question of

    How do you really get to know someone?

    • Conversation.
    • By being in their house.
    • Years of living together.
    • By meeting their family.
  • Question of

    What theme would you choose for a wedding?

    • Fairy Tale
    • Garden Theme
    • Beach Theme
    • Rustic Country Theme
  • Question of

    How many pets do you have?

    • One
    • Two
    • Two or more
  • Question of

    Where would you build a dream home with your true love?

    • Hawaii
    • Mexico
    • Phillipines
    • Some other place!
  • Question of

    What’s your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
    • Other

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