How much are you crushing?

 

 

Year, new existence! That’s the good thing about living you’re given an opportunity to redeem yourself making everything better after nearly anything, including divorce. Go!

However again, let’s say you aren’t really prepared to make things better (relationship-smart) after your divorce at this time? Your buddies keep egging you to definitely place yourself available and begin dressing second-skin dresses that can make Kim Kardashian blush. Your mother, father, your brothers and sisters, kids as well as your cousin from Ohio who doesn’t worry about others but herself said that you’re so ready.

Are you currently really? If you want encouragement from others to begin dating again, you’re most most likely not. Listed here are a couple of more terrible reasons to begin dating again publish-divorce:
“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”
Marilyn Monroe

“You’ve gotta dance like there’s nobody watching,
William W. Purkey

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”
Dr. Seuss

“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.”
Elbert Hubbard

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”
Martin Luther King Jr.,

“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
Stephen Chbosky,

“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”
Andre Gide,

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
Bob Marley

“As he read, I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once.”
John Green,

“The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.”
Elie Wiesel

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”
Friedrich Nietzsche

“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.”
Pablo Neruda,

“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”
William Shakespeare,

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.”
Neil Gaiman,

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
Lao Tzu

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Have you ever found yourself thinking about this person from the moment you have woken up and the moment you go to sleep?

    • I do, yes.
    • Sort of. And by this I mean, they sometimes cross my mind.
    • I normally only think about them once or twice.
    • I never have, no.
  • Question of

    Do you ever long to see or speak to this person, whether it’s online, face to face, e-mail, text and so on?

    • Yes, I do. Almost/Always all the time.
    • Not really, but sometimes I feel like I need to.
    • I think they’re the ones who want to talk to me.
    • No, I never have.
  • Question of

    When you see the person, how do you feel?

    • I get really excited and start off a conversation (Or vise versa)
    • I get butterflies in my stomach and I feel extremely shy.
    • I tend to shake a lot because I’m nervous.
    • It depends, varies on the day.
    • I just feel normal.
    • I get annoyed because I don’t want to see this person.
  • Question of

    When this person isn’t around, how do you feel?

    • I get really upset and I wish they were here with me.
    • I patiently wait until I see them around
    • I’ll text them, because I can’t stop thinking about them
    • I just feel normal I guess
    • Happy, since I don’t like them
    • Other
  • Question of

    Do you ever listen to a song and think that it reminds you of this person?

    • Yes, I do.
    • No, I don’t.
  • Question of

    How much have you known this person for, and how well do you know them?

    • We’re very close, best friends.
    • We’re good friends.
    • We’re ‘just’ friends I guess.
    • We’re acquaintances/Mutual friends
    • I barely know them
    • Other
  • Question of

    Do you find yourself going out your way to spend time with this person? Which includes staying up late, giving advice, being with them and so on.

    • Yes, I do.
    • Sometimes I do, depends on my plans
    • Very rarely
    • No
  • Question of

    Is this person currently in a relationship?

    • Yes. With me.
    • Yes. With someone else.
    • I’m not very sure.
    • No.
  • Question of

    If you had the chance to spend most or all your time with this person, would you give that up for them?

    • Yes. I would, they’re very important to me
    • I’d probably use a fraction of the time I have.
    • I can’t because I’m usually busy or with other people..
    • No, not at all.
  • Question of

    Have you found yourself in a dream with this person? What type of dream was it?

    • Yes, I have. It was a good dream.
    • Yes, I have. It was quite a weird but funny dream.
    • Yes, but it was a negative dream.
    • No I haven’t
    • Other
  • Question of

    How would you describe this person?

    • They’re amazing, really sweet, generous, friendly, caring… Words can’t describe.
    • They’re nice, alright, good friend.
    • They’re okay, friendly, shy
    • Naive, ignorant, aggressive, horrible, obnoxious, jerk.
    • Silent, never talks, mute, mysterious
    • Other
  • Question of

    When you’re talking to this person, what are your thoughts?

    • ”I wish I had the guts to tell them exactly how I feel”
    • ”They’re so sweet. I wish I could tell them how I feel about them”
    • ”I’ve been wanting to talk to you for some time…”
    • ”Finally I get to talk to my friend”
    • ”Not them again… ugh”
    • Other
  • Question of

    When you’re talking to this person, how do you feel? What is your body language telling you?

    • I start to get butterflies. I feel extremely nervous (And you may shake a little)
    • I worry in case I say the wrong thing.
    • I get shy and I feel tense.
    • I just feel normal, like I always do. Like talking to a friend.
    • I just want to go away from them.
    • Other
  • Question of

    Do you honestly think you have feelings for this person?

    • Yes. I’m certain I have a strong feeling for this person.
    • Yes, but it’s mostly likely just good friendship
    • I have mixed feelings about it. Generally on and off.
    • I don’t know. Hm.
    • No I don’t have feelings for this person
  • Question of

    Do you think this person has feelings for you?

    • Yes, it’s quite obvious. They care about me.
    • Yes, but probably just friendship.
    • I don’t think so. They don’t really show it.
    • No

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