How Much Do I Love Him?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you think you like this guy?

    • Yes! I really do.
    • Well no. But this guy is really cool.
    • I don’t know.
    • I don’t think so! I don’t even know what am I doing here?
  • Question of

    How often do you think about him?

    • I rarely think of him.
    • Quite often.
    • Only when I see him.
    • Just a few times during the day.
  • Question of

    When you see him, how do you act/feel?

    • I just look at him and smile, and he smiles back 🙂 Or I go up and talk to him/he comes up and talks to me.
    • I turn away/or blush!
    • I stare at him the whole time, but he never looks at me.
    • My heart beats so much and I get funny happy feelings.
    • I don’t really feel anything, I act casual.
  • Question of

    Have you both made eye contact?

    • Yeah, we do it all the time, when we talk to each other.
    • We’ve never made eye contact. 🙁
    • Yes! And we stared into each others eyes for what seemed like forever!
    • We’ve only made eye contact a couple of times…
    • What?
  • Question of

    When you walk past/near each other, what do you do?

    • We smile and say hi.
    • We both look at each other, that’s it.
    • I never really see him.
    • Usually we talk for a bit.
    • I sometimes see him, but I only look at him for like a second.
  • Question of

    When you are walking by, do you sometimes look for him?

    • Sometimes…
    • Yes, I do that basically all the time, I always wanna see him.
    • Uhh… No.
  • Question of

    Do you dream about being with him in the future?

    • No, not really.
    • Yeah, we go out and have tones of fun together. 🙂
    • Yeah, he asks me out. 🙂
    • Yep, we have kids and everything or we get married.
    • Umm… sometimes, but we only talk and stuff.
  • Question of

    If you could only see him once a month, how would you feel?

    • OMG! I’d panic, well I’d be really sad.
    • Oh well, if it happens, it happens.
    • I usually see him less than that, so, yeah I would!
    • Well, that’s how often I see him now, so…
    • What? Am I supposed to feel something?
  • Question of

    When you see him talking to other girls you feel:

    • Bit angry, but you don’t really care that much.
    • You feel like your heart is being broken.
    • He is allowed to talk to girls. Why should I care?
    • You wanna whack the face off that bitch!
    • Com’on. Why would I care?
  • Question of

    Do you wanna smile at him but can’t?

    • No, I don’t want him to see me smile at him!
    • I smile at him all the time, I love it!
    • I wanna, but every time we make eye contact I get nervous and can’t.
    • No Way! What does that even mean?
    • No, man. I don’t think that way.
  • Question of

    Do you wish you could just walk up to him and give him a hug?

    • What!?
    • Yeah, definitely!
    • Yes!… I mean that would be cute.
  • Question of

    How much do you think about him?

    • Most of the time
    • Why would I think about him? I see him every day!
    • When I see something that reminds me of him
    • All the time
    • Not that much
  • Question of

    When you think about him, you:

    • Smile, then change the subject (I’m shy)
    • Laugh and think about what I could be doing with him
    • I’m sad
    • Smile and remember him
  • Question of

    After 10 years, you imagine that:

    • I’m still with him, and am deeply in love
    • We’re friends, but are still in love
    • There is no future for us
    • We’re just friends – it didn’t work out
  • Question of

    Which of these evenings seems the most romantic?

    • A candlelit dinner
    • Sitting on the riverbank under the moonlight
    • Walking together on the beach
  • Question of

    If he ever proposes, you will:

    • Scream yes
    • Take time to think about my answer
    • Tell him yes, but that we need to wait
    • Never gonna happen! We’re just dating
  • Question of

    Which is closest to how you’d describe your love?

    • Love? There is no love between us
    • I’m deeply in love, and have never felt this way before
    • I love him, but….
    • We are so in love – but I loved one person more than him
  • Question of

    You think he:

    • Means the world to me
    • Is the best guy ever
    • Is insensitive – I hate him!
    • Is my soulmate
  • Question of

    If he ever demanded anything, you would:

    • Tell him he can just do it himself
    • Think before doing whatever it is
    • Do it immediately and without thinking – I trust him
  • Question of

    Which of these gifts would you want to give him?

    • Why should I buy him a gift? He doesn’t deserve one
    • A simple tie
    • An expensive watch
  • Question of

    If he ever introduces you to his parents, you will:

    • Try my best to win their approval
    • I’ll try my best, but it wouldn’t be my fault if they hated me
    • Not care about their opinions – I’m dating him, not his parents

When will my crush fall in love with me?

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