How Much Does Your Boyfriend Love You?

 

 

Love is one of the most complicated things in the world, at least if we look at it from a scientific perspective. For the time being it is complex because of the fact that we still don’t know much about it. Researchers are still trying to get a solid answer to What is love?

While it may happen that they might not have the complete picture of love they do know a few things about it.

It is widely agreed by scientists that love can be categorized into three different categories:

  1. Lust
  2. Attachment
  3. Attraction

One important thing to note is that there are overlaps between the three categories which means it could be possible that your love is a mixture of two categories like Attachment and Attraction.

Lust – It is nothing but the desire to produce offsprings.  Sex is considered one of the basic requirements of life. It is considered basic because it cannot be easily suppressed. The most basic hormones involved in it are testosterone and estrogen. A lack of them, especially testosterone may lead to a low sexual drive.

Attachment – Attachment basically lays the foundation of long term relationships. This is the reason why we humans can live in a monogamous relationship. Oxytocin and Vasopressin are the primary hormones in driving attachment. These hormones are considered to be the precursors to bonding.

Attraction – While it may seem the same as Lust but the fact is that it is very distinct. Dopamine is considered to be one of the most hormones when it comes to attraction. High levels of dopamine are released when we do anything that makes us feel good. We could also say that dopamine motivates us to do things that make us feel good. Whatever it may be high levels of it may lead to addiction-like behaviors. You also may have problems like insomnia and binge-eating.

There are many other things that are involved in making it the way it is. Whatever it maybe you could take this quiz to find out how much does your boyfriend loves you?

“I had a boyfriend who told me I’d never succeed, never be nominated for a Grammy, never have a hit song, and that he hoped I’d fail. I said to him, ‘Someday, when we’re not together, you won’t be able to order a cup of coffee at the fucking deli without hearing or seeing me.”
― Lady Gaga

“We kiss all the time.” I clear my throat, then add, “We just…do it in private.”
“A smug expression crosses his face. “I don’t buy it for a second, ’cause if you were my girlfriend and a stud like me was livin’ in your house, I’d kiss you in front of the guy every chance I got as a reminder.”
“A reminder of w-w-what?”
“That you were mine.”
― Simone Elkeles, Rules of Attraction

“When you find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will stand in front of you when other’s cast stones, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who will hold your hand when your sick, who thinks your pretty without makeup, the one who turns to his friends and say, ‘that’s her’, the one that would bear your rejection because losing you means losing his will to live, who kisses you when you screw up, watches the stars and names one for you and will hold and rock that baby for hours so you can sleep…..you marry him all over again.”
― Shannon Alder

“I won’t lie. Walking into a room and seeing your girlfriend reading a baby-name book can kind of make your heart stop.
“I’m no expert,” I began, choosing my words carefully. “Well—actually, I am. And I’m pretty sure there are certain things we have to do before you need to be reading that.”
― Richelle Mead, The Fiery Heart

“I am here to determine my relationship.”
Simon goggled. She couldn’t be talking about him. Could she?
“Do you see that man?” Isabelle asked, pointing at Simon. Apparently she was talking about him. “That’s Simon Lewis, and he is my boyfriend. So if any of you think about trying to hurt him because he’s a mundie or–may the Angel have mercy on your soul–pursuing him romantically, I will come after you, I will hunt you down and I will crush you to powder.”
― Cassandra Clare, Welcome to Shadowhunter Academy

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How does he kiss?

    • He’s amazing
    • Not good
    • I’m under 16. That’s gross!
  • Question of

    Does he buy you flowers?

    • Yes! I love him so much. He’s so cute
    • No
    • No. I’m under 16. He is too. (too young)
  • Question of

    Does he share? (Headphones, phones, water bottle, etc.)

    • Yes! It’s like everything that he owns I own
    • No
    • Eww! No, that’s gross. I’m, again, under 16
  • Question of

    Does he like to teach you things and help you?

    • Yes! He is so cute, and he knows everything
    • No. I’m starting to doubt my future with him
    • Yes. I’m stubborn, though. He doesn’t care
    • Yeah, I’m just stubborn. He gets mad, too
  • Question of

    How much time do you spend with him?

    • Every day
    • Every other day
    • Like once a week
    • Every school day. I’m forced
    • A few times a month
    • A few times a month. (long distance)
  • Question of

    Do you bring him to your house a lot?

    • Mmmhmmm
    • No. Gosh darn it
    • Yeah. My mom thinks we’re friends
    • Yeah. My mom is super supportive
  • Question of

    How does he look at you?

    • He gazes at me. I know it’s true love
    • He looks at me like a normal person
  • Question of

    Do you have a song?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We have like 4
  • Question of

    If so, what is it about?

    • True love
    • Sex
    • Other
    • All of the above
    • We don’t. I told you
  • Question of

    Is he cute?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Yes. Why does it matter
    • No. Why does it matter
  • Question of

    What do you think you’ll get?

    • True love
    • Not meant to be
  • Question of

    How often do you text?

    • Sometimes
    • Never
    • Always
  • Question of

    Do you love him?

    • We were forced to get together
    • 100%
    • Kind of!
  • Question of

    Has he ever told you he loves you?

    • He doesn’t know me
    • He says that a lot
    • No…..
  • Question of

    Does he flirt with other girls?

    • No he would never!
    • All the time
    • Sometime

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