How much of it is love?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Have you ever introduced any of your boyfriends/girlfriends to your parents?

    • Yes
    • If catching us in bed counts…?
    • No
  • Question of

    Ladies-does size matters?

    • Umm..all depends
    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Do you have sex on the first date?

    • That’s disgusting!
    • Who doesn’t?
    • If I’m drunk enough
  • Question of

    What’s the best way to break up with someone?

    • Face to face
    • After bad sex
    • Text
  • Question of

    Have you ever had a one night stand?

    • Yes
    • I can’t remember!
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you remember who took your virginity?

    • No
    • It was more than one person….
    • Of course! We still associate
  • Question of

    How many steady relationships have you had in the past 2 years?

    • 0-2
    • 5-6
    • 3-4
  • Question of

    How many sexual partners have you have?

    • Less than 5
    • Can’t count on 2 hands
    • Less than 10
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    How soon did he fall for you and ask you out?

    • It was love at first sight for him
    • Within a week
    • After a month
    • After two months or so
  • Question of

    Does he mostly contact you after 6:00 pm?

    • Yes
    • No, we talk all day long
    • Yes, ONLY at night
  • Question of

    Does he flood you with compliments?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Sometimes
    • Never, I wish he did
  • Question of

    Does he include you in his future goals or is very serious about an open relationship with you?

    • Yes
    • No, he says he wants to be more sure
    • He never talks about this
  • Question of

    Did he tell his friends, family or people close to him about liking you?

    • No, he wants to keep it a secret
    • Yes, his friends know me
    • Yes, everyone close to him knows about me
  • Question of

    Is he good at keeping promises?

    • No, he always says one thing and does the opposite
    • Yes!
  • Question of

    Does he flirt with other girls?

    • No, he shows no interest in them
    • I don’t think so
    • Yes, he does when he gets the chance
    • All the time
  • Question of

    Has he ever said ANYTHING mean to you that made you feel bad?

    • Yes, a lot of times
    • No, he is a nice guy
    • Yes, a couple of times
  • Question of

    What is the first topic/conversation you bring up while on a date?

    • Sex
    • Family
    • Religion
    • Number of sexual partners
  • Question of

    Are you concerned about your date’s sexual history/past? (number of sexual partners, sexual things they have done)

    • No
    • Maybe
    • Yes

Love or just sex?

Are you interested in love or just plain sex?