How Solid is Your Relationship?

 

“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“Have you ever noticed how parents can go from the most wonderful people in the world to totally embarrassing in three seconds?”
Rick Riordan,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How long did it take before you felt chemistry with this person?

    • It was instant
    • One hour
    • About a week
    • A couple of months
  • Question of

    Where did you go on your first date?

    • He took me to dinner and a movie
    • We met for coffee
    • To his place.
    • To my place.
  • Question of

    How was the first three months of dating?

    • Romantic and fabulous
    • Fun and exciting
    • Inconsistent
    • Just sex
  • Question of

    Was there a point when he started to back off? If so, when?

    • After 5 months
    • After one year
    • His affections remain just as strong
    • Not sure
  • Question of

    How long did it take for you to meet his friends?

    • One year
    • I met them immediately
    • After about a month
    • I haven’t met them yet and its been more than a year.
  • Question of

    How often does he take you out?

    • Never. We never go out.
    • Once a week
    • Once a month
    • Every now and then
  • Question of

    How often does he text you?

    • Several times a day
    • Once a day
    • Rarely
    • Constantly
  • Question of

    How often does he call you on the phone?

    • Rarely
    • A few times a week
    • Once or twice a day
    • Several times a day
  • Question of

    How does he introduce you to his friends and family?

    • By my name.
    • This is my friend ‘_____’
    • This is my girlfriend ‘______’
    • He doesn’t introduce me to anyone.
    • This is my lady. Or something close to that.
  • Question of

    Does he remember important things you tell him about yourself or your life?

    • Always.
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • He seems to not care about my interests
  • Question of

    Does he make plans with you in advance?

    • Always. He makes a special effort to make time in his life for me.
    • Sometimes.
    • No. It’s usually last minute
    • He doesn’t generally make plans with me.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you he cares about you?

    • Never
    • He did once, but that was it.
    • Every now and then
    • Every chance he gets
  • Question of

    Are you exclusive?

    • I think so.
    • No
    • I think he is seeing other women
    • Yes
  • Question of

    I can name my partner’s best friends

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    I know what stresses my partner is currently facing.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    I know the names of some of the people who have been irritating my partner lately.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    I can tell you some of my partner’s life dreams.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    I can tell you about my partner’s basic philosophy of life.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    I can list the relatives my partner likes the least.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    I feel that my partner knows me pretty well.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    When we are apart, I often think fondly of my partner.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    I often touch or kiss my partner affectionately.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    My partner really respects me.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    There is fire and passion in this relationship

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    Romance is definitely still part of our relationship.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    My partner appreciates the things I do in this relationship.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    My partner generally likes my personality.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    Our sex life is mostly satisfying.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    At the end of the day my partner is glad to see me.

    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    My partner is one of my best friends.

    • yes
    • no

Will your relationship last?

Will you last forever?