How to break up with him? (girls only)

 

“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, I’ll Give You the Sun

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Where She Went

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Is he nice to you?

    • Yes
    • No
    • 50/50
  • Question of

    Is he good looking?

    • Yes
    • No
    • A little
    • More yes than no
  • Question of

    Is he smart?

    • Average
    • Very
    • No
  • Question of

    Is he always late?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We never hang out
  • Question of

    How long have you been dating?

    • A few months
    • Just started
    • For years
  • Question of

    Does he cheat?

    • Yes
    • No way
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Has he ever hurt you?

    • Yes
    • Accident
    • No
  • Question of

    Is he mean to your friends?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I do not know
  • Question of

    Do your friends like him?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I do not know
  • Question of

    Is he sweet?

    • Very
    • Never
    • 50/50
  • Question of

    Do you think you should break up?

    • Yes
    • No
    • He does
    • Why would I take this test
  • Question of

    What’s the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning?

    • I wish I could go back to sleep.
    • It depends on the day.
    • I check my phone and social media.
    • My boo!
  • Question of

    Have you ever been stood up by your SO?

    • All the time!
    • Maybe once or twice
    • I may have stood them up before.
    • Of course not
  • Question of

    How often do you two text each other during the day?

    • Never
    • Once in a while
    • Too often
    • Whenever we feel like chatting
  • Question of

    How hard is it to agree on where to go for dinner?

    • We don’t really like the same food, so it’s never easy.
    • Not too hard, but you never know!
    • Sometimes it’s a chore.
    • We love all the same stuff, so it’s not super hard.
  • Question of

    Do you like to have people over for parties?

    • Not really my scene
    • Sometimes, sure!
    • I’d rather go out for that.
    • Love it!
  • Question of

    Does your family like your partner?

    • Not at all
    • More or less
    • I’d guess they think my SO is just OK.
    • Maybe even more than I do …
  • Question of

    Have you ever broken up with each other before?

    • A few times
    • No, but I’ve thought about it.
    • Once
    • Never
  • Question of

    Where would the two of you most likely go on vacation together?

    • Meh, doesn’t matter
    • An island, maybe
    • Las Vegas
    • Disney World
  • Question of

    What’s your opinion on couples costumes?

    • Yeah, no.
    • Not for me, I don’t think.
    • I’ve seen some cool ones.
    • I love them!

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