How To Choose Between Two Guys

 

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Rubaiyat

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves


Marty McConnell Mythology

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, The Bridges

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, New Order

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Which guy do you think is more handsome?

    • Gorgeous 2
    • Gorgeous 1
    • I have contact with many handsome guys, because I’m gorgeous myself
  • Question of

    Which guy do you see more in a week?

    • Neither – I live in a cave
    • Gorgeous 1
    • Gorgeous 2
  • Question of

    Which guy have you already hugged?

    • Gorgeous 1
    • Both
    • Gorgeous 2
  • Question of

    Which guy have you already had a date with?

    • Gorgeous 2
    • Gorgeous 1
    • Both
  • Question of

    Which guy is more of a gentleman? THIS ONE IS IMPORTANT – you DON’T want a prick 😉

    • Gorgeous 2
    • Gorgeous 1
    • They’re both pricks, actually
  • Question of

    Which guy’s family is nicer? That’s very important, no matter your age.

    • Actually, they both have really nice families
    • Gorgeous 2
    • Gorgeous 1
  • Question of

    Which guy can you imagine living your life with? Like with children, in your own house, with your own job?

    • Gorgeous 1
    • Gorgeous 2
    • Both – aaaah, I can’t choose!
  • Question of

    If you were stranded on a deserted island, which guy would you rather be with?

    • I’m not so stupid that I would land in that situation
    • Gorgeous 1
    • Gorgeous 2
  • Question of

    Imagine you’ve been kidnapped. You send both guys a message at the same time that you’ve been taken. Which guy do you believe would rescue you first?

    • They’re both too lazy to rescue me
    • Gorgeous 1
    • Gorgeous 2
  • Question of

    Which guy do you think is more perfect for you?

    • I’m still not sure
    • Gorgeous 1
    • Gorgeous 2
  • Question of

    Alright, go ahead and decide which one is ‘Person 1’ and which one is ‘Person 2’

    • Alright cool because Person 1 can be the one I like more!
    • Oh sweet I love person 2. heart heart love love!
    • ok.
  • Question of

    Who do you think is cuter?

    • Person 1!
    • Person 2!
    • Idk.
  • Question of

    Who do you think is HOTTER?

    • Person 1.
    • Person 2.
    • Don’t know.
    • Neither one is hot.
  • Question of

    Which one makes you laugh more?

    • Person 1.
    • Person 2.
    • Neither one makes me laugh.
    • Oh god, both!!!
  • Question of

    Picture yourself kissing person 1. How does it make you feel?

    • Oh my gosh. Like I reeeeeaaally want that to happen. Mmmm.
    • Eh, not so crazy about that thought.
    • Don’t really know.
  • Question of

    Now picture yourself kissing person 2.

    • I’m not feelin’ it.
    • Yes, please!!
    • Ugh, I like both A LOT.
  • Question of

    Can’t you just see it now? The mistletoe above you, the dim lights, the soft music. It’s the perfect romantic moment. Who would you like to be about to kiss?

    • Definitely person 1 in a moment like that.
    • Definitely person 2 in a moment like that.
    • Probably person 1. But I don’t know.
    • Probably person 2. But I don’t know.
    • Either one would be so great.
  • Question of

    Does person 1 like you?

    • Probably / yes.
    • Probably not / no.
  • Question of

    Does person 2 like you?

    • Probably not / no.
    • Probably / yes.
  • Question of

    Who’s easier to talk to?

    • Person 1.
    • Person 2.
    • Both….

Which Guy Should I Choose?

Which Guy Do You Like?