Is He A Bad Boyfriend?

 

“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, Little Women

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde Lullaby

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake The Lucky One

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Heart of the Matter

“No matter how much you love someone, you still want to have you own way.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, I Had a Dream About You

“Sometimes to self-discover you must self-destruct.”
robert m drake I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he compliment you?

    • yes a lot
    • no never
    • sometimes
  • Question of

    Does he remember things that happened to both of you or or things you told him about your life?

    • yes most of the time
    • no not really
    • sometimes
    • GRRRRRR
  • Question of

    Is he shy around you sometimes?

    • ya (so cute
    • no hes too much of a jerk
    • no hes just not like that
    • only sometimes
  • Question of

    Is he ever mean to you?

    • yes 🙁
    • no way
    • sorta
  • Question of

    Is he ever protective over you?

    • no hahahaha
    • yes and its sweet
    • yes but its annoying
    • not really
  • Question of

    What color hair does he have? (no effect)

    • brown
    • blonde
    • red
    • black
    • its dyed a weird color
    • other
  • Question of

    You’re watching a movie at the theatre,

    • He puts his arm around my shoulder
    • He stares at me
    • He does nothing but watch the movie
    • He holds my hand
    • He kisses me
  • Question of

    When something is about to hit you,

    • He pushes me out of the way
    • He moves out of the way
    • He runs away and leaves me stranded
    • He moves out of the way then tells me to move out of the way
    • He stays there while looking like a scared little puppy dog
  • Question of

    You’re at a party,

    • Brings me to talk to his friends then acts as if I’m not in the room
    • Leaves me and goes over to talk to his friends
    • Introduces me to his friends
  • Question of

    You see each other at the grocery store,

    • Ignores me
    • Waves at me
    • Blows me a kiss
    • Smiles at me
    • Comes over to me and starts a conversation
  • Question of

    You are at your favorite store and try on an outfit that doesn’t

    • Tries to change the subject
    • Tells me I look ugly
    • Tells me politely that it’s just not my style
  • Question of

    Have you ever caught him with another girl?

    • Never
    • All the time
    • Only once
    • Every once and a while
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    You text him that you broke a bone,

    • Calls me and asks how it happened and if I’m ok
    • Comes to my house to take care of me all weekend
    • Texts me every day to ask if I’m feeling better
    • Mails me a flower bouquet
    • Doesn’t do anything
  • Question of

    Has HE ever kissed YOU? ????

    • Na. Just hugs.
    • Only on special occasions
    • He doesn’t do anything to me
    • Sometimes
    • Yeah! He does it all the time!
  • Question of

    He decides to take you out to eat,

    • A nice, fancy, romantic restaurant
    • IHop
    • Hooters
    • Subway
    • Burger King
  • Question of

    You tell him that your neck is sore,

    • Massages it
    • Takes me to a great spa to get a full massage and pays for it
    • Takes me to someone who will massage it (badly) for little cost
  • Question of

    If you are talking about something you don’t like about yourself, for example your hair, what will he do?

    • He will ignore you or try to change the subject.
    • He will laugh.
    • He will say something nice about it or you to make you feel better.
    • He will get really annoyed.
    • He will tease you about it later
  • Question of

    Ok, you are in class and for some reason you start to cry. He:

    • ignores it
    • doesn’t have the guts to make you feel better but is mad at the people who are mean about it
    • tries to make you feel better
    • calls you a sissy for crying or is a jerk about it
  • Question of

    Does he ever give you a cute shy smile?

    • no
    • yes
    • rarely
    • sometimes
  • Question of

    If some girls are talking bad about you does it make him mad?

    • yes
    • no he doesn’t care
    • maybe
  • Question of

    Whenever you mention another boy he:

    • gets sad about it and its obvious he is
    • doesn’t care at all
    • pretends not to care but really does
    • changes the subject or ignores you

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