Is he a player or does he like me?


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he flirt with everybody?

    • Only a few people
    • Yes
    • Me and one other person
    • Only me
  • Question of

    When you’re in a group conversation, does he look at you a lot?

    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Yes, every time I look at him (can’t relate)
    • A lot of the time
    • Not a lot
  • Question of

    Does he ever try to hang out with you alone?

    • Sometimes
    • Never
    • A few times
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Do people say that he likes you?

    • No one
    • His close friend
    • He told me
    • Someone I didn’t even know told me
    • My best friend
  • Question of

    Why are you taking this quiz?(Does not count towards score)

    • I really wanted to know
    • Because I felt like it
    • I was bored
  • Question of

    Now let me ask you, how much do you like him? 1 being not a lot and 10 being in love. less than 5 not really a crush. More than 5 is more than a crush

    • 1-3
    • 4-6
    • 10
    • 7-9
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes you

    • Yes
    • Maybe
    • I think he’s playing me
    • No
  • Question of

    What’s his favorite color?

    • I know it
    • I don’t know?
    • I haven’t asked him yet
    • Ive never talked to him
  • Question of

    Are you friends with him?

    • Best friends
    • Acquaintances
    • Yes
    • I’ve never talked to him
    • Kind of
  • Question of

    Does he ever tease you?

    • Sometimes
    • He teases everyone
    • Yes and only me
  • Question of

    Does he have a girlfriend?

    • Yes
    • No
    • No but he likes someone
  • Question of

    Why do you like him?

    • His looks
    • He’s nice
    • His personality
  • Question of

    Has he ever been purposefully mean?

    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Yes
    • Occasionally
    • Once
  • Question of

    Has he ever done nice things to you one day then ignored you the next?

    • Yes how did you know?
    • Sometimes
    • Occasionally but that’s because he’s moody
    • Never
  • Question of

    Does he have lots of girl friends?

    • Just me
    • Just me and my friends
    • A few
    • Yes, more than I can count

Is He A Player, Or Does He Really Like Me?

Are you in love with a player? (girls)