Is He Going To Marry Me?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    When he’s around both you and his friends, what does he do?

    • We don’t hang out with his friends
    • He talks to all of us
    • He only talks to them
    • He leaves me by myself until they’re gone, then comes and talks to me
    • He only talks to me
  • Question of

    When it comes to your future together, you’ve talked about:

    • Getting married, having kids and buying a house
    • What we’re doing for our anniversary next year
    • Upcoming birthdays and holidays
    • What we’re going to do next week
    • What he’s doing tomorrow
  • Question of

    What do you talk about?

    • General topics
    • Him
    • Me
    • Everything…things we both like
    • How much we miss each other when we’re apart
  • Question of

    Do you love him?

    • I don’t know yet
    • YES!
    • Maybe
    • No
    • *Sighs* Yes, but I don’t want him to know
  • Question of

    How often are you together, just the two of you?

    • Every day
    • Once a week
    • Once a month
    • Only on weekends
    • Only when he wants to have sex
  • Question of

    What do you do together?

    • Talk…hug and kiss…make love…hang out
    • Talk
    • Hug and kiss…make love
    • Just hang out
    • Make love – or for him, ‘do it’
  • Question of

    Has he asked you to marry him yet?

    • Yes
    • Why would he do that?
    • No
    • Kind of…he brought it up once
    • I can’t remember – I don’t listen when he talks
  • Question of

    Can you see yourself with him for the rest of your lives?

    • I could imagine it
    • I don’t think I want to
    • Yes, absolutely
    • No
    • I don’t even want to begin…it’s just sex
  • Question of

    How long have you been with him?

    • We’re not together!
    • A month
    • A year or more
    • Almost a month
    • A couple of days
  • Question of

    Have you met your potential ‘in-laws’?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’ve met most of his friends. Does that count?
  • Question of

    Have the two of you spent a holiday together?

    • Yes, and we are already planning the next one!
    • He’s never wanted to take a vacation with me
    • We’ve spoken about it, but never set anything in stone.
  • Question of

    Have the two of you ever spoken about living together?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We always spend the night over at each other’s place. Does that count?
  • Question of

    Does your boyfriend have a stable job?

    • Yes, he has a great career!
    • No, he’s been bouncing around with jobs.
    • He has just quit his job and looking towards a whole new opportunity.
  • Question of

    Have you guys said ‘I love you’ yet?

    • Yes, we say it all the time!
    • No, he’s not very affectionate.
    • Not yet, but I think he will soon!
    • We say it occasionally.
  • Question of

    Have the two of you discussed kids or sharing a home together?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We have a dog. Does that count?
  • Question of

    How long have the two of you been dating?

    • 0-12 Months
    • 1-3 Years
    • 4+ Years
  • Question of

    Are the majority of your boyfriend’s friends married?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I haven’t met his friends yet!
  • Question of

    How do you make up after a fight?

    • We have a calm discussion, say we are sorry and never argue about the same thing twice.
    • We’ve never had a fight!
    • Make up sex!
  • Question of

    Can you see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m not really sure…
  • Question of

    Does he hold your hand when casually walking?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Not really…
    • Sometimes, when we are walking down the road alone and no one is around.
  • Question of

    Have you two ever cheated on each other?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m not sure if he has…
  • Question of

    If the two of you had a break in the relationship, would he…

    • Not want to be with anyone else with the hope of you two getting back together?
    • Find someone else, but still keep in contact?
    • Never want to talk to you again?
  • Question of

    Do you two speak everyday?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Does a text count?
  • Question of

    Has he ever wondered what your kids would look like?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Never
    • He doesn’t want kids.
  • Question of

    How often does he tell you he loves you?

    • Once a day
    • Never
    • When his friends aren’t around
    • All the time…seems like every second
    • Every once in a while

Is your spouse in love with you now, or the you then?

Will you marry your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?