Is he my Soul-mate? Quiz!


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Are you comfortable talking to him ?????

    • I don’t know
    • Kinda
    • Yep it is 100% natural
    • NOPE
  • Question of

    How many dates have you been on ?????

    • None
    • 3 or 2
    • Tons
    • 1
    • 4 or 5
  • Question of

    Do you love him ????

    • Sort of
    • I don’t know
    • I used to
    • Yes and I wouldn’t doubt it
    • Not really
  • Question of

    How much do you flirt ?????

    • Not at all
    • Umm.. let’s just say too much ????
    • A little bit
    • I dunno ????‍♀️
  • Question of

    What do your parents think ?????

    • Love him and it is all good ????
    • Whatever
    • It is just young love ????
    • Don’t like him ????
  • Question of

    Random question: what is your favorite animal?

    • ????
    • ????
    • ????
    • ????
    • ????
  • Question of

    If you didn’t know your boyfriend or crush would you date someone else?

    • Yes I already know my number two
    • If I meet someone then yes
    • Maybe
    • NO WAYYY
  • Question of

    Do you find their flaws endearing?

    • Aw, I so do!
    • Kind of, but I wish they’d change.
    • Not really, no. Who would?
    • Don’t get me started about their many flaws!
  • Question of

    Do you like saying their name out loud?

    • What an interesting question. I actually love saying their name!
    • I like their name, but it’s not like I go around saying it aloud. LOL.
    • Uh, what … What kind of question is that?
    • You mean out loud just to hear how it sounds? That sounds loony.
  • Question of

    Do you like their smell?

    • Oh, my. Do I ever … It’s so dreamy.
    • I’m pretty turned on by it.
    • Most of the time
    • Actually, it bothers me. I think they need to change deodorants or something!
  • Question of

    What does it feel like to sleep by their side?

    • Like absolute heaven
    • Pretty cozy
    • Okay. I kind of wish they wouldn’t toss and turn so much.
    • What sleep? I wake up every half hour.
  • Question of

    How do you feel about the pet name they gave you?

    • Like it was made just for me
    • I think it’s cute.
    • I get a little annoyed by it sometimes, for no reason.
    • They’d better not start calling me by a pet name!
  • Question of

    How quickly did you fall in love?

    • Immediately, and it hasn’t waned.
    • It didn’t take long to see there was a spark.
    • I’m not sure I’m in love yet.
    • I wouldn’t say I am in love. I like them.
  • Question of

    What’s it like to hold their hand?

    • Like we’ve always been united
    • It’s sweet, and I generally like it.
    • I’m a little uncomfortable with it.
    • Hold hands? Seriously! So old-fashioned.
  • Question of

    From a scale of 1-10, how attracted are you to them?

    • Off the charts!
    • 9-ish, mostly
    • I’d say 7.
    • I’d probably say, um, honestly, 6.
  • Question of

    How well do they get your sense of humor?

    • They know what I’m thinking before I say it, and we laugh telepathically.
    • We get each other’s humor, and it’s great.
    • They don’t really get me, but they’re coming around.
    • They usually think I’m joking when I’m not and laugh when I’m being serious. Go figure.
  • Question of

    Do you often find yourself smiling for no reason when you think of them?

    • All the time
    • I often do.
    • If I have a reason, sure!
    • Smiling for no reason? What kind of fool does that?
  • Question of

    Do you have similar interests?

    • We have so much in common, it’s almost uncanny.
    • For the most part, yes, but I really respect that they have their own interests.
    • There’s enough in common to keep us together, let’s just say that.
    • We both like Mexican food and sunshine.
  • Question of

    Have you ever felt like this before?

    • Definitely not
    • I’ve felt something similar once.
    • I’ve been in love many times.
    • Are you kidding? Of course I have.
  • Question of

    Do you argue often?

    • Occasionally, but we get it over it quickly.
    • More than I’d like
    • We tend to tiptoe around things that might cause friction.
    • We fight like rabid cats and dogs. Hard not hold a grudge afterward.
  • Question of

    They say they want to date you exclusively. How do you feel about that?

    • We were dating exclusively from the moment we laid eyes on each other.
    • I think that’s already understood.
    • Oh? I’m not sure I’m ready to say I’m a relationship.
    • Look, I’m not even ready to commit to the next date.
  • Question of

    Do you feel comfortable around them?

    • Super comfortable, and at the same time, there’s this incredible attraction.
    • For the most part, yes, but sometimes I feel a little put off by something.
    • Not really. It’s something that bothers me a little.
    • Sometimes. I’m not usually comfortable with people I’m attracted to.
  • Question of

    Which of these images evokes the feeling of them?

    • A meadow
    • A window
    • A watch
    • A bar
  • Question of

    How responsive are they to your needs?

    • It’s like they read my mind.
    • They’re pretty considerate for the most part.
    • I can tell they’re trying, but it doesn’t come naturally to them.
    • Responsive? Well, I guess they know I have needs. I think.
  • Question of

    Do your friends like them?

    • Yes! They like that they’re making me happy.
    • My close friends do, for the most part.
    • Some do, some don’t. They say we’re mismatched.
    • No, but who cares?
  • Question of

    What is it like to kiss them?

    • So good it makes me swoon!
    • It’s really nice, but I wouldn’t say it’s phenomenal.
    • I’ve had better kisses.
    • I wish they’d learn how.
  • Question of

    Do you ever worry about being too clingy with them?

    • No. We’re on the same page, for sure.
    • A little, sometimes
    • A lot, actually
    • All the time, or else I think they’re being clingy.
  • Question of

    Do you text a lot ?????

    • Nah. Maybe once if urgent
    • Every other day but we aren’t that fussed
    • Yes, everyday and we worry if we don’t.
    • Once or twice a fortnight
  • Question of

    Have you kissed ?????

    • No and we never will
    • Yeah and we aren’t afraid.
    • Yes but it was awkward.
    • Yep but NEVER AGAIN!
    • I’d rather not say
  • Question of

    Who knows about you ?????

    • Friends ONLY
    • No one just us
    • It isn’t a thing
    • Only our close friends

Are you two a perfect match?

Have you found your soulmate?