Is he really a sociopath?


“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, Little Women

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde Lullaby

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake The Lucky One

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Heart of the Matter

“No matter how much you love someone, you still want to have you own way.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, I Had a Dream About You

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.”
Shannon Alder, I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does your boyfriend get bored easily.

    • Yes, he is constantly looking for new things to do.
    • No, he seems pretty content with the day-to-day stuff.
    • No, he has interest in new things, but can also sit back and enjoy the little things.
  • Question of

    When my boyfriend does something that hurts me, he…

    • Feels really horrible and apologizes profusely.
    • Shrugs it off as though it is my own fault.
  • Question of

    When my boyfriend gets angry he…

    • walks away from the situation.
    • yells out, and becomes very irritable/threatening
    • confronts the situation in a respectful manner.
  • Question of

    Does he stare at you with his mouth open?

    • All the time!
    • No. Just no.
    • Not usually…..?
  • Question of

    Does he text you nonstop everyday?

    • A couples times, not really, I guess.
    • Every waking minute!
    • Never.
  • Question of

    Does he ask girls out regularly?

    • Not very often.
    • It seems like there is a new girl everyday!
    • No, he isn’t a player like that.
  • Question of

    Does he make you feel guilty about turning him down?

    • Sometimes it gets to me.
    • No, he’s very considerate of my feelings.
    • He makes me feel like it’s my fault.
  • Question of

    Is he cute?

    • Bleh.
    • He’s okay. Kind of!
    • Hot stuff!
  • Question of

    What group of people does he hang out with?

    • Nerds.
    • Emo.
    • Jocks.
  • Question of

    What are his hobbies?

    • Math, Science, Food, and jump rope.
    • Stalking you, texting you, calling you, chatting you, never leaving you alone, you…etc. etc.
    • Hanging out with friends, sports, listening to music.
  • Question of

    Does he stare blankly into space during school/work?

    • Yeah.
    • No.
    • Not really.
  • Question of

    Is he competitive?

    • Not usually. Just the norm!
    • No, he’s very down to earth.
    • Very! He shouts at little kids!
  • Question of

    Does he have a temper?

    • He explodes!
    • He’s chill.
    • He stays pretty calm, with bursts of anger.
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    Would you say that your boyfriend is manipulative?

    • Definitely Not
    • I’m Not Sure
    • Maybe a Little
    • Definitely
  • Question of

    Would you say that your boyfriend tends to surround himself with people who ‘worship’ him?

    • Yes, All the Time
    • I’m Not Sure
    • No, I Don’t Think So
  • Question of

    How reliable is your boyfriend?

    • Very Reliable. I can count on him for anything.
    • Somewhat reliable. He’ll help me out if I really need something.
    • Not reliable at all.
  • Question of

    How truthful is your boyfriend?

    • He might tell a little white lie every now and then. Who doesn’t?
    • Very honest about everything.
    • It is difficult for me to tell what is the truth or a lie with him.
  • Question of

    How is your boyfriend’s motivation related to work?

    • He is a workaholic.
    • He uses any excuse he can to avoid work and responsibilites.
    • He has some goals, and he is working on developing his career.
  • Question of

    Everyone messes up sometimes. Can your boyfriend learn from his mistakes?

    • Yes, once he does something wrong, he never does it again.
    • Sometimes, depending on what it is.
    • No, he is constantly messing up the same things.
  • Question of

    What was your boyfriend’s longest relationship?

    • He’s never really had a ‘girlfriend’. He just dates.
    • A few weeks to a few months
    • Several months
    • At least one or more years.
  • Question of

    How confident is your boyfriend in himself.

    • Just the right amount.
    • He is pretty full of himself.
    • He is insecure.

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