Is he ‘The One?’


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Rubaiyat

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, The Bridges

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, New Order

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    First off, is he relationship-oriented?

    • Yes! ^^
    • Somewhat!:/
    • No!:(
  • Question of

    Can you trust him completely?

    • Kind of!: p
    • Not really..:(
    • Yes! Of Course!: D
  • Question of

    Does he respect the differences you guys have?

    • He somewhat does! uwu
    • Of course he does! OwO
    • No.. he tries to change me.. T-T
  • Question of

    Do you recognize his flaws? And are able to tolerate them?

    • I acknowledge some of his flaws UnU
    • What flaws… o.o
    • Of course I do! I love his flaws ÒwÓ
  • Question of

    Do you feel you HAVE to be perfect around him 24/7? Or can you show your true self?

    • I can show who I really am! I’m not embarrassed by it!:3
    • I can somewhat show who I really am around him.. kind of
    • I feel like he wouldn’t like the real me.. ;-;
  • Question of

    This one may be hard to understand but…

    • Yep yep yep!
    • Not really/I don’t understand the question
    • Kind of~
  • Question of

    Is he able to work through conflict with you?

    • Kind of! Sometimes we can’t solve the problem at hand.
    • No, he always has to be right/do it his way.
    • Of course! We always find a resolution!
  • Question of

    Is he genuinely interested in your life? and Vice Versa?

    • Yes! We have to know everything about each other!
    • Noo.. I barely know him now that I think about it:/
    • Somewhat~ we sometimes ask questions about each other..!
  • Question of

    (These last two questions are pretty serious)

    • Yes! We both want nearly the same things! ♡~ ♡
    • We agree on some things! ^~^
    • We don’t agree on anything/one or two things T-T
  • Question of

    Does he put in the work to make you feel loved?

    • I don’t really feel loved by him…:,)
    • He somewhat makes me feel loved UwU
    • Yes! I feel loved from him more than anyone ♡
  • Question of

    What do you expect about love?

    • Wonderful moments and so much dates…
    • Laughter and intense events…
    • Love is full of surprises…
    • I don’t know.. Find it out if you want…
  • Question of

    What makes a woman beautiful?

    • If she’s in-love…
    • If she out on make-up…
    • If she wears something wonderful…
    • If she has a natural pretty face…
  • Question of

    Can you guess when a guy likes you?

    • Never because guys are unpredictable…
    • Of course. Guys are flirts a by nature so they’re too obvious if they’ll like you or now…
    • I don’t know but maybe..
    • I care less with guys… It’s just guys no bid deal…
  • Question of

    What do you wear on a date?

    • A nice casual dress…
    • A decent clothe…
    • Anything comfortable…
    • I don’t date…
  • Question of

    Do you trust easily?

    • Kind of and it really pisses me off afterward when that trust are being abused…
    • Nope… I hardly give my trust…
    • Not in a million years…
    • I trust easily but then I slap quickly if hurt…
  • Question of

    Is friendship the beginning of love?

    • Some stories are like that but not all…
    • It’s possible because you already have mutual understanding…
    • Ridiculous because it’s like siblings feeling..
    • I don’t know and I don’t care…
  • Question of

    Is it okay to like someone who’s already committed?

    • That is called stealing… no!
    • It’s fine as long as you’re not making any moves to break them…
    • Depends if they’re about to split up…
    • I don’t turn my head to committed people…
  • Question of

    Do you think you are in-love?

    • I think not but just trying to be…
    • I think I am but i cannot reveal it yet…
    • I am always in-love everyday…
    • I am allergic to that topic because once I suffered so much pain because of that stupid love…

Is Your Current One, The One?

Is He The Right One For Me?