Is He The Right One For Me?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Where She Went

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, I’ll Give You the Sun

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    If you told him about a problem you were having, he would:

    • Ask what I’m telling him for
    • Say he doesn’t care
    • Ask what it is and how he could make it better
    • Not seem concerned
  • Question of

    What do you expect about love?

    • Wonderful moments and so much dates…
    • Laughter and intense events…
    • Love is full of surprises…
    • I don’t know.. Find it out if you want…
  • Question of

    What makes a woman beautiful?

    • If she’s in-love…
    • If she out on make-up…
    • If she wears something wonderful…
    • If she has a natural pretty face…
  • Question of

    Can you guess when a guy likes you?

    • Never because guys are unpredictable…
    • Of course. Guys are flirts a by nature so they’re too obvious if they’ll like you or now…
    • I don’t know but maybe..
    • I care less with guys… It’s just guys no bid deal…
  • Question of

    What do you wear on a date?

    • A nice casual dress…
    • A decent clothe…
    • Anything comfortable…
    • I don’t date…
  • Question of

    Do you trust easily?

    • Kind of and it really pisses me off afterward when that trust are being abused…
    • Nope… I hardly give my trust…
    • Not in a million years…
    • I trust easily but then I slap quickly if hurt…
  • Question of

    Is friendship the beginning of love?

    • Some stories are like that but not all…
    • It’s possible because you already have mutual understanding…
    • Ridiculous because it’s like siblings feeling..
    • I don’t know and I don’t care…
  • Question of

    Is it okay to like someone who’s already committed?

    • That is called stealing… no!
    • It’s fine as long as you’re not making any moves to break them…
    • Depends if they’re about to split up…
    • I don’t turn my head to committed people…
  • Question of

    Do you think you are in-love?

    • I think not but just trying to be…
    • I think I am but i cannot reveal it yet…
    • I am always in-love everyday…
    • I am allergic to that topic because once I suffered so much pain because of that stupid love…
  • Question of

    How does he make you feel when you’re around him?

    • Like he really doesn’t want to be around me
    • Like scum
    • Like I’m the only girl in the world
    • Like he couldn’t care less that I’m with him
  • Question of

    Does he get along with your parents?

    • They really haven’t met him, just know of him
    • Yes, they get along
    • They try to hook me up with different people
    • They disapprove of him
  • Question of

    How well do you two communicate?

    • We barely communicate
    • He only calls to yell at me for something I did
    • He only calls me if he’s bored and has nothing else to do
    • Great – we talk every day, and he understands me
    • He only calls if he wants something
  • Question of

    Is he someone you could see yourself with, and possibly have a family with?

    • No
    • He hates children
    • We’ve never talked about it
    • He doesn’t think we will be together that long
    • Yes
  • Question of

    How does he treat you when you two are alone?

    • Like dirt
    • With respect and courtesy
    • Like I’m his pet or something
    • Like I’m just one of the guys
    • Like he couldn’t care less
  • Question of

    If you were to make him mad, how would he react?

    • He would try to talk to me about why he had gotten mad
    • He would slap me around until he thought I learned my lesson
    • He would tell me I’m stupid and don’t know anything
    • He would just go into his own little world
    • He would yell at me at the top of his lungs
  • Question of

    When you two are alone, most of the time you are:

    • We don’t spend time alone together
    • Fussing
    • Just being bored with each other
    • Having sex
    • Cuddling
  • Question of

    When his friends are around, he treats you like:

    • Like he’d rather I weren’t there
    • I’m still important, even though he is joking around with his friends
    • Like there is no purpose for me to be around
  • Question of

    If you were to tell him you love him, how would he react?

    • He would say he likes me, but doesn’t feel the same way – sorry
    • He would say it back if he felt the same way
    • He would say I’m crazy in the head for saying that
    • He would laugh in my face
    • He would pay me no attention

Is he ‘The One?’

Is he the right one Quiz?