Is it love, like, or lust?

“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“Have you ever noticed how parents can go from the most wonderful people in the world to totally embarrassing in three seconds?”
Rick Riordan,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Lastly, do you know how you feel about him?

    • Yes I do, but I doubt it’s positive now…
    • I don’t know if I like him or love him.. He’s on my mind sometimes..
    • I love him, there’s not much else to say. I think about him all the time.
    • I wish I knew how his abs felt, I guess.
  • Question of

    Well, do you love him?

    • I’m not so sure…
    • I want to make out with him, if that counts.
    • Of course I do, he’s amazing!
    • I like him, but love is going a little too far.
  • Question of

    Say you two have been texting for a few days. And suddenly, he just stops replying for a day or two. So, you’re curious as to why. One day he texts you saying, ‘Hey, I’m sorry but I-‘. What do you expect his excuse to be?

    • Hey, sorry I was busy.
    • Neither of us really notice.
    • I’m sorry, but I was with family, I wanted to text you but I couldn’t find the chance.
    • There is no excuse, we start texting like it never happened.
  • Question of

    Are you dating, broken up, or wanting to date him?

    • I would like to, for the kissing.
    • I would like to/used to date each other.
    • Yes we are together, and it’s great.
    • We’ve broken up/ having doubts about him
  • Question of

    You see him in the same room as you, say it’s the mall or a store and you two haven’t seen each other for a pretty long time. What do you do?

    • Think about all the things you’ve wanted to do with him. Possibly daydream about how amazingly hot he is.
    • Laugh and run up to him, hugging him and giving him a kiss on the cheek/mouth
    • Go up to him and say hi, but of course being a little nervous.
    • Avoid him, ducking behind people and dreading the moment he walks up to you.
  • Question of

    What do you like about him?

    • I’m not sure what I like…
    • His perfect face and body, god I can’t get enough of him.
    • His personality, he’s so funny and friendly.
    • Everything, he’s just perfect.
  • Question of

    Would you change anything about him?

    • No, we both have our flaws and that makes us who we are.
    • Well, definitely nothing that has to do with his looks!
    • Something about his personality.
    • Maybe something small, but there’s not much to change.
  • Question of

    If he Saw another guy hitting on you, what would he do?

    • He’d immediately intervene, probably becoming really mad.
    • He wouldn’t really notice.
    • He wouldn’t care, most likely.
    • He’d probably become a little mad, looking over at us sometimes.
  • Question of

    Do you see yourself with anyone else besides him?

    • Of course not.
    • Yes I could, even though he’s attractive.
    • Even though I greatly prefer him, I could see myself being with someone else in the future.
    • Yes.
  • Question of

    Do you two talk?

    • Not anymore/not at all
    • Sometimes, and I’m happy when we do/would really like to.
    • All the time.
    • Eh, not really, but I’d rather kiss him.
  • Question of

    Does anyone else have some of your interest, even if it’s only a little?

    • Yes
    • No, he has ALL of my interests lol.
    • Well, there’s just this one guy, but It’s only a little.
    • Cute guys usually catch my interest.
  • Question of

    If he kissed you, what would you do?

    • Immediately start making out, wrapping your arms around his waist.
    • Be surprised, but kiss him back.
    • Pull back, and look up at him with a confused look.
    • Kiss him back, wrapping your arms around his neck.
  • Question of

    If he asked to sleep with you, what would you say?

    • Excuse me!
    • Say you love him so much, but it has to wait until you’re ready.
    • Politely decline, but you’re flattered and kind of disgusted by how forward he’s being.
    • Sign me up!
  • Question of

    If you guys dated and broken up, how would you feel?

    • Relieved slightly.
    • Devastated, it was supposed to last forever… ????
    • We can’t kiss anymore? Damn it…
    • Be sad, but you knew at sometime, you would move on.
  • Question of

    Can you see a future with him?

    • Yes; and I know it would be amazing.
    • I could, but I’m not sure how things could end up.
    • Well… I’m not really sure, but he’s super cute…
    • Not really..

Is it lust?

Is this love or just plain lust?