Is My Boyfriend Cheating On Me?

 

“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How often does he take you out?

    • never, he wants to be known as the single guy even though were dating.
    • as often as he can.
    • when he is in a good mood.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you, your beautiful?

    • Maybe once or twice.
    • there was that one time, oh wait he was talking about the girl next to me so that makes it to a total of zero.
    • whenever he gets the chance to.
  • Question of

    Have you ever seen him cheat on you.

    • I’ve seen it and heard about it.
    • never.
    • heard about it he denies it though.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you he loves you?

    • all the time! (:
    • like a few times.
    • probably once, maybe not even. 🙁
  • Question of

    What does he say when you tell him you love him.

    • you better!
    • i love you too.
    • i would never say i love you too him.
  • Question of

    How long have you like/loved him?

    • as long as i can remember.
    • mhh not that long.
    • i use to like/love him not anymore though.
  • Question of

    Do his friends know your dating?

    • No, his friends think i’m a loser.
    • Yes, its public knowledge were dating..
    • Some might i dont know though.
  • Question of

    Last question do you think he is cheating on you or likes someone else?

    • Maybe.
    • Yes.
    • He would never do that to me.
  • Question of

    Whom does your boyfriend like to be around, besides you, in his free time?

    • His parents
    • His friends – mostly boys
    • His friends – mostly girls
  • Question of

    Where does he like to go after school or on weekends?

    • He prefers to stay home and get drunk with a friend
    • Skateboarding through town
    • He likes to stay home and play chess with his dad
  • Question of

    How often does he hang out with girls (ones his age)?

    • More than three times a week
    • Once a week
    • Never (just me)
  • Question of

    Do any of your friends talk about him or say they think he’s hot?

    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • At least every day
  • Question of

    Does he talk about any other girls around you, or to someone you trust?

    • Never
    • Every time we are together
    • Once in a while
  • Question of

    Have you ever talked to one of his friends and they told you he was flirting with another girl, or showing off for her, while this friend was right there watching?

    • Yes – only because that friend likes me and wants me all to himself
    • That’s never happened to me before
    • That happens once in awhile
  • Question of

    Have you ever found a picture of another girl in his room or house?

    • No – I don’t snoop
    • Yes – he claims it is his cousin
    • Yes – he doesn’t say who it is, though
  • Question of

    Picture this – you call and ask your boyfriend if he wants to go on a picnic, just the two of you. He says no, that he’s grounded, or gives another excuse like that. You are cool with that, but decide to go on the picnic anyway, even if he can’t go. You don’t tell him that you’re going. You then see him there having a picnic with another girl. When you call him later, what does he say when you ask him what he did earlier?

    • I was forced to go on a picnic with a cousin my parents say I need to spend more time with. I would have called you, but I thought you would get jealous of her or something. You can even ask one of my parents, it’s the truth
    • I was extremely bored, I was locked in my room the whole day
    • I was over at my friend’s house, because I got off grounding early
  • Question of

    Does he tell you he loves you before you get off the phone, or before you leave each other, even if it’s just for a short period of time?

    • Only when no one is listening/we aren’t in public
    • Yes – even when we aren’t leaving or anything
    • Never
  • Question of

    Have you met each other’s parents?

    • Yes – a long time ago. They are pretty cool
    • No – whenever I bring up that topic, he changes it
    • I was never introduced to his parents, but he was introduced to mine
  • Question of

    When your out in public he …

    • Only see’s you! (:
    • His eyes wounder.
    • He doesn’t listen to me and pretty much ignores me! 🙁
  • Question of

    Does he text, call, or talk to other girls a lot?

    • hardly.
    • all the time.
    • sometimes.

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