Is Our Relationship Going To Last?

 

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves


Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How old are you?

    • Younger than 14
    • 15/16/17
    • Older than 18
  • Question of

    How long have you and your special someone been together?

    • A few years
    • Not long…about a couple of weeks
    • A couple of months
  • Question of

    Are they the first person you’ve ever been with?

    • Yes
    • No, but they are the first I really care about
    • No, I’ve been with my share of people
  • Question of

    What role do they play in your life?

    • I don’t care all that much about them…it’s all about having fun
    • They do play a pretty important role in my life
    • I couldn’t imagine life without them!
  • Question of

    If your special someone asked you for a favor, what would you do?

    • Say no right away – I don’t really even want to hear what they want me to do
    • Ask them what exactly I’d have to do and then decide if I’m going to do it
    • Say yes right away – I’d do anything for them!
  • Question of

    What do you dislike most about your significant other?

    • Definitely too clingy!
    • My special someone doesn’t have any flaws! They’re just perfect!
    • I couldn’t tell you the exact thing I dislike, but sometimes they just piss me off
  • Question of

    Have you told your special someone you love them yet?

    • I’d never do that!
    • Yes, many times!
    • No, I haven’t, but I plan to
  • Question of

    How do you really feel about them?

    • I don’t even know them that well – for me, it’s just the sex that matters
    • I love them, but they’re more like a buddy to me
    • I love them with all my heart
  • Question of

    When did you first say ‘I love you’? If you haven’t yet, when are you planning to?

    • Never!
    • When we’re in a romantic mood and the timing just feels right
    • After we first had sex
  • Question of

    Have you ever had sex with your current partner?

    • Yes, lots of times
    • No, I’m still a virgin
    • No, but I’m planning to soon
  • Question of

    Are you jealous?

    • All the time! I hate not knowing where they are or who they’re with
    • I can be jealous sometimes
    • No – normally, they are the one to get mad when I’m harmlessly flirting
  • Question of

    What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you see them?

    • Sex, sex, sex!
    • They just blow me away every time they enter a room
    • Wow! I can’t believe how lucky I am to be with someone like this
  • Question of

    Describe your first time with your current partner (or describe how you want it to be).

    • Both of us just living in the moment and doing it anywhere
    • Just the two of us in bed having wild sex
    • Totally romantic! Cuddling at a moonlit beach
  • Question of

    Do you ever feel you might see each other too much?

    • Yes, sometimes I feel it gets to be too much
    • Yes, I totally do! I’d love to see other people instead
    • No, I enjoy every single moment I’m with them
  • Question of

    What do you expect from your relationship?

    • Are you kidding? I already know what our kids’ names are going to be!
    • I want it to last a really long time
    • I just want to have fun – I might even end it in a few weeks
  • Question of

    Have you ever felt somewhat uncomfortable, even kind of ashamed, when other people see you together?

    • Yes, all the time
    • No, why would I?
    • Yes, sometimes when I’m not in a particularly good mood and my special someone is acting really stupid
  • Question of

    Have you ever thought of cheating?

    • No, I’d never do that to them!
    • I have to admit, I sometimes think about having sex with other people. I’d never cheat on anyone, though
    • All the time. And I already have, by the way – multiple times
  • Question of

    Have you ever made future plans for you and your loved one?

    • Yes, I do that all the time. I imagine us being married and living in a big house with our children Andrew and Jessica
    • Future? I live for now! Besides, I would never dream of having a future with the person I’m with at the moment
    • I sometimes do, but it doesn’t involve marriage or kids
  • Question of

    How would you react if you saw your special someone kissing someone else?

    • I’d break up with them
    • I would use that as an excuse to finally break up with them
    • I’d start yelling at the person they kissed, but would probably forgive and forget
  • Question of

    Do you think of your significant other as a good kisser?

    • Well, they try
    • Yes, definitely. But it’s probably the only thing they actually do well
    • Ooh, God yes!
  • Question of

    Do you think of you and your partner as a perfect match?

    • Not in a million years!
    • Definitely! We have so much in common and our love is so strong!
    • We kind of match, yes
  • Question of

    Have you ever opened your eyes while kissing them?

    • I sometimes do – to make sure my special someone’s got their eyes closed!
    • Yes – to check out other people, of course
    • No, I lose myself in the kiss too much, and it wouldn’t feel right to have my eyes open
  • Question of

    Imagine you met your current special someone while you were with someone else. What would you have done?

    • I’d break up with my partner to be with that special someone
    • I’d try to push my feelings toward them aside and be fair to my partner
    • I’d sleep with them anyway
  • Question of

    Have you ever had the feeling your loved one might be cheating on you?

    • I wouldn’t care either way
    • Yes, sometimes I feel like there might be someone else
    • No, I’m sure they would never do that to me!
  • Question of

    Have you ever done something you didn’t really want to just to please your partner?

    • Yes, I often do things I don’t want to do just because they want me to
    • No, I’d never do something I don’t want to do
    • No, I only care about myself
  • Question of

    Do you and your loved one have a song?

    • Yes, we kissed for the first time when that song came on. We listen to it regularly
    • Huh? We only have sex!
    • No, we don’t really have a special song, but we do love the same bands
  • Question of

    In bed, do you like to be on top, or bottom?

    • On top! I like to have control!
    • I don’t care as long as we have fun
    • Bottom
  • Question of

    Do your parents like your special someone? Do their parents like you?

    • We haven’t met each other’s parents
    • Their parents hate me and my parents couldn’t care less about who I’m with
    • Their parents like me and my parents absolutely adore them
  • Question of

    What’s your favorite genre of movie?

    • Romance, Drama
    • Comedy
    • Action, Science Fiction
  • Question of

    Last, but not least: Why did you take this test?

    • I was forced to do it by my so-called special someone
    • I really want to know more about my relationship
    • I was bored

What are the chances of you and them working out?

Is My Relationship Stable Quiz [FOR GIRLS]