Is the boy of your dreams going to ask you out?



“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he stare at you?

    • Sometimes I catch him in the act.
    • Only to be annoying.
    • Never! He doesn’t notice me!
    • All the time!
  • Question of

    What does he do when you catch him staring at you?

    • He smiles, waves and winks while blushing fiercely.
    • He looks down instantly.
    • He makes a funny face and rolls his eyes.
    • He just continues staring like he’s spacing off.
  • Question of

    Have you ever touched?

    • We hug, kiss, and lean up against each other.
    • Never.
    • He doesn’t know I exist, so no.
    • Hands, when we reach for the same thing.
    • He taps me on the shoulder to get my attention.
  • Question of

    How long have you known each other?

    • 2-3 years
    • 2-3 months
    • All my life
    • 2-3 weeks
    • Just met
  • Question of

    Does he flirt or talk to you?

    • Once in a while I’ll start a conversation, but it’s only on school or sports, nothing personal.
    • Never, he doesn’t know I exist
    • All the time, and I flirt right back!
  • Question of

    Scenario: he comes up to you and your friends and they:

    • Open the circle to let him in.
    • They stop talking and make things awkward
    • They laugh and point at him and you and make lovey-dovey comments.
    • They flirt with him.
    • They close the circle
  • Question of

    Scenario: He pushes you playfully, and you:

    • Playfully push him back
    • You get dramatic
    • You tell him to f**k off
    • You say ‘Excuse me’ and hurry on your way
    • Push him twice as hard
  • Question of

    You act around him as:

    • Shy and quiet
    • You don’t do anything because you are afraid to do something wrong and look like an idiot
    • You get loud and obnoxious
    • You tease him and take his things
    • Talk a lot and tell about yourself and ask about him
  • Question of

    Scenario: You drop your things in the hallway and he:

    • Picks up your items and escorts you to class
    • He playfully kicks a few of your things to you before leaving.
    • He picks up the nearest item and hands it to you, asks if you’re okay then hurries on his way.
    • He looks at you, but continues on his way as if nothing happened.
  • Question of

    Have you told him you liked him? How did he respond?

    • HELL NO!
    • Yes; and now he’s awkward to be around
    • Yes; and he acted interested and nodded his head
    • Yes; now he pays more attention to me and stares at me in class
    • Yes; and he acted like it was no big deal
  • Question of

    Are you:

    • A good friend of his.
    • In one to three of his classes.
    • Invisible to him.
  • Question of

    In class you:

    • Catch him looking at you in class, then see you looking at him and blushes/winks and turns away.
    • Are staring at him the whole time, and catch him looking you over once or twice.
    • Class? Who said he was in any of my classes?
  • Question of

    Does he ever play with your hair or tease you?

    • Totally!
    • Sometimes. Like when he’s making fun of me. I think it’s in a good way, though.
    • (Snort.) As if he’s never even looked at me, much less teased me.
  • Question of

    Does he ever offer to hold your books for you or walk you to your locker?

    • Isn’t that what he’s supposed to do?
    • Not really. I mean, he helps me pick up my books if I drop them, but other than that, no.
    • Who does?
  • Question of

    What happens whenever you walk by him and his friends in the hallways?

    • He immediately: 1) Hides behind one of his whispering friends, 2) Comes and talks to me, or 3) Starts blushing uncontrollably.
    • He looks down and sort of blushes, I guess. Or he just offers a smile and pretends not to notice me.
    • Nothing. If he steps on my foot accidentally, he either pretends he doesn’t notice or doesn’t notice at all.
  • Question of

    If you’re at your locker by yourself before lunch and he suddenly walks by, he:

    • Stops by and starts talking to you and then walks you to the cafeteria/dining hall/cafe.
    • Says hi and is gone.
    • Does nothing. If I’m lucky, he’ll actually acknowledge my presence and nod to me.
  • Question of

    It’s raining, you’re at a bus stop and he’s the only person with you: what does he do?

    • Starts talking to me immediately, offers you his jacket or umbrella and offers a ride home so you won’t have to stand outside in the rain forest.
    • Mumbles a hi and starts feigning interest in an Algebra question.
    • Calls his friend on his cell and asks for a ride with them so he won’t have to stand in the rain. Does nothing for you. I mean, why would he? He doesn’t even know my name.
  • Question of

    There’s a school dance coming up. What does your crush do? And at the dance, what does he do?

    • Asks you to it immediately. The day of the dance, you’re the only person he’ll look at.
    • Does the same thing you do-goes to the dance with friends. He asks you to dance once.
    • Asks the most popular girl in the grade to go with him. At the dance, he doesn’t look at me once.
  • Question of

    If your school dance is a girl-ask-guy thing and you ask him to go, what’s his response?

    • With a passionate: ‘OMG God, I was hoping you’d ask me! I’ll definitely go with you!’
    • With a polite: ‘Sure, if you’d like me to.’
    • With: ‘Who ARE you?’
  • Question of

    You’re at a party and you know that your crush is there, what is his first step?

    • Comes to you immediately and asks if he can get you a drink.
    • Starts talking to his friends and smiles politely at you when he walks by you.
    • Starts showing off his six-pack immediately and doesn’t realize that you’re there.

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