Is there a spark between you two?


“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde Little Women

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake The Lucky One

“When you say “I” and “my” too much, you lose the capacity to understand the “we” and “our”.”
Steve Maraboli, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, Heart of the Matter

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, I Had a Dream About You

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.”
Shannon Alder, I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How long have you known him?

    • Not so long
    • Not sure.
    • Just met
    • Quite a long time
  • Question of

    What’s your relationship?

    • We don’t like each other.
    • Enemies
    • Besties
    • Friends/close
    • He doesn’t know me
  • Question of

    Why do you like him?

    • I don’t.
    • I don’t have 1 word to describe him, he’s just amazing.
    • Sexy
    • He’s funny.
    • He compliments me.
  • Question of

    Have you ever fell out/argued?

    • Yes. Many times.
    • Sort of.
    • Never.
  • Question of

    Does he have a girlfriend?

    • No.
    • I’m not sure.
    • Yes.
  • Question of

    Think of him… right now… think of his smile… and his skin.. his hair. Stop. Were you smiling?

    • Kinda.
    • I always do.
    • No. Of course not.
  • Question of

    When you talk, do you end up laughing, arguing or just smiling or nothing?

    • Laughing
    • Smiling
    • We don’t talk.
    • Arguing
    • Nothing
  • Question of

    Even when you don’t sit next to him, does he still try to talk to you?

    • No I try to talk to him.
    • We don’t talk.
    • Yep.
    • No.
  • Question of

    Do you have separate friendships?

    • Yes.
    • It’s just us two.
    • We don’t talk!
    • Yeah, but I do like his friends.
    • No.
  • Question of

    Do you think you have a connection?

    • No.
    • The checklist is all ticked.
    • I don’t know.
    • Yes.
    • We don’t talk so no.
  • Question of

    Have you taken a long trip together?

    • We have never taken a trip.
    • We have taken short ones.
    • Yes, it went OK.
    • Yes, it went great.
  • Question of

    Have you had a talk about values?

    • No, we don’t need to.
    • Yes, and it didn’t go that great.
    • Yes, and they’re different.
    • Yes, we have the same values.
  • Question of

    Do you guys usually split the cost when you go out?

    • No, I always pay.
    • The other person always pays.
    • Pretty much.
    • Whoever has more money at the time pays.
  • Question of

    Have you ever watched someone’s pet together?

    • No, neither one of us likes animals.
    • Not together, no.
    • Yes, but I did most of the watching.
    • Yes, it was super fun.
  • Question of

    Have you ever taken a class together?

    • No, I have no idea what we would do together.
    • No, but that sounds fun.
    • Yes, we took a physical class together, like dance or exercise.
    • Yes, we learned how to do something together, like painting or cooking.
  • Question of

    Do you watch the same shows on TV?

    • No, not even close.
    • I am not even sure.
    • Mostly
    • Totally
  • Question of

    Have you stayed up together all night talking?

    • No, how would that even happen?
    • No, but we like to talk.
    • Pretty close.
    • Yes, we have.
  • Question of

    Have you stayed up all night partying?

    • Not together
    • No, we don’t roll like that.
    • Yes, and it got ugly near the end.
    • Yes, it was so fun.
  • Question of

    Have you ever done it three times in one day?

    • Are you joking?
    • That sounds a little ambitious.
    • No, but we did it twice!
    • Yes, it was great.
  • Question of

    Have you ever been in a big fight?

    • Yeah, we didn’t speak to each other for days.
    • Yes, it was awful
    • No, not really
    • Yes, but it was good for us in the long run.

Will you get in a relationship with her? (high school/teen)

Will you and your crush get together?