Is your Boyfriend a Cheater?

 

“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Have you made with plans with your man and he later has to cancel because he says he has to do home work?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Has your man started hanging out with some girls that you don’t like but he says hey there not my company?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    HAVE YOU EVER CAUGHT HIM CHEATING?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Has he ever lied to you about where he is going?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Have you ever seen him where he is not supposed to be?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Does your man get mad over the dumbest things?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Do you always get accused for stupid things because you ask your man about those things?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Does your man go to parties with females and not tell you about it?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Do you feel like your man would cheat on you if you’re not giving him any?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Do you think you will stay with your man if confirmed that he was cheating on you?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    When your out in public he …

    • Only see’s you! (:
    • His eyes wounder.
    • He doesn’t listen to me and pretty much ignores me! 🙁
  • Question of

    Does he text, call, or talk to other girls a lot?

    • hardly.
    • all the time.
    • sometimes.
  • Question of

    How often does he take you out?

    • never, he wants to be known as the single guy even though were dating.
    • as often as he can.
    • when he is in a good mood.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you, your beautiful?

    • Maybe once or twice.
    • there was that one time, oh wait he was talking about the girl next to me so that makes it to a total of zero.
    • whenever he gets the chance to.
  • Question of

    Have you ever seen him cheat on you.

    • I’ve seen it and heard about it.
    • never.
    • heard about it he denies it though.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you he loves you?

    • all the time! (:
    • like a few times.
    • probably once, maybe not even. 🙁
  • Question of

    What does he say when you tell him you love him.

    • you better!
    • i love you too.
    • i would never say i love you too him.
  • Question of

    How long have you like/loved him?

    • as long as i can remember.
    • mhh not that long.
    • i use to like/love him not anymore though.
  • Question of

    Do his friends know your dating?

    • No, his friends think i’m a loser.
    • Yes, its public knowledge were dating..
    • Some might i dont know though.
  • Question of

    Last question do you think he is cheating on you or likes someone else?

    • Maybe.
    • Yes.
    • He would never do that to me.

Is Your Boyfriend REALLY Cheating on You?

Is your lover cheating?