Is your boyfriend cheating on you?


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    At school when you see each other in the hallway, who is he most likely to be hanging around with?

    • His football team and a few of their girlfriends
    • GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS everywhere!
    • Maybe 2 or 3 of his close friends
    • A big group of people I don’t know
  • Question of

    When you are alone, what are you both most likely to be doing?

    • Talking about your day and what happened
    • Planning our weekend away together <3
    • Nothing. It’s so quiet I can hear his breathing
    • He’s on his phone…COMPLETELY IGNORING ME
  • Question of

    At a party he…

    • Talking to one or two friends – you don’t want him to leave you!
    • We ignore each other until the party is over
    • It’s only been 15 minutes and you’ve already lost him
    • Pulls you to the dance floor for a slow dance
  • Question of

    You ask him politely to borrow his phone, what does he say?

    • Urghhh.. after this… one sec…
    • Sure *hands you the phone*
    • But you were on it 2 minutes ago..
    • AW HELL NAW.
  • Question of

    How many times a day does he check his phone?

    • What phone?
    • Enough to make me feel alone
    • Like 10 times maybe less
    • Every 6 minutes!
  • Question of

    What is the closet reason as to why he broke up with his ex?

    • Too aggressive in bed
    • Too lazy to put a condom on
    • Too lazy
    • Too aggressive
  • Question of

    Does he ever look at other females when you’re out in town?

    • More like dead stares.
    • Yes, it makes me feel uncomfortable and jealous that’s why I’m so strict on him sometimes:(
    • Maybe – But he will apologize or look away with disgust
    • The only female he looks at is me.. jokes…
  • Question of

    Has a friend ever told you that he had tried to flirt with her or him?

    • Yes but she’s just a jealous hoe
    • One friend? More eight friends
    • Once but that was like two years ago
    • Never
  • Question of

    Have you met his parents?

    • No.
    • Twice but it was really awkward
    • Yeah but I don’t like them
    • Yes
  • Question of

    On dates where does he take you?

    • He likes to mix it up – beach, bowling, movies, picnic…
    • I like to stick to the usual – movies and a restaurant please.
    • Subway…eat fresh:(
    • Somewhere far away like on the other side of town
  • Question of

    How many ex’s does he have?

    • I’m his first.
    • 1,5,9,16… ok I lost count.
    • Like 2?
    • He never told me.
  • Question of

    Why do you think he’s cheating on you?

    • I’m just curious
    • He has been acting weirder than usual and hasn’t been talking to me that much
    • My ‘friends’ told me somethings that made me wonder
    • I don’t wanna be dating some ass that’s why I’m taking the test!
  • Question of

    When your out in public he …

    • Only see’s you! (:
    • His eyes wounder.
    • He doesn’t listen to me and pretty much ignores me! 🙁
  • Question of

    Does he text, call, or talk to other girls a lot?

    • hardly.
    • all the time.
    • sometimes.
  • Question of

    How often does he take you out?

    • never, he wants to be known as the single guy even though were dating.
    • as often as he can.
    • when he is in a good mood.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you, your beautiful?

    • Maybe once or twice.
    • there was that one time, oh wait he was talking about the girl next to me so that makes it to a total of zero.
    • whenever he gets the chance to.
  • Question of

    Have you ever seen him cheat on you.

    • I’ve seen it and heard about it.
    • never.
    • heard about it he denies it though.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you he loves you?

    • all the time! (:
    • like a few times.
    • probably once, maybe not even. 🙁
  • Question of

    What does he say when you tell him you love him.

    • you better!
    • i love you too.
    • i would never say i love you too him.
  • Question of

    How long have you like/loved him?

    • as long as i can remember.
    • mhh not that long.
    • i use to like/love him not anymore though.
  • Question of

    Do his friends know your dating?

    • No, his friends think i’m a loser.
    • Yes, its public knowledge were dating..
    • Some might i dont know though.
  • Question of

    Last question do you think he is cheating on you or likes someone else?

    • Maybe.
    • Yes.
    • He would never do that to me.

Is he cheating on you?

Is Your Boyfriend REALLY Cheating on You?