Is your ex-boyfriend in a new relationship?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    To deal with the pain that your ex boyfriend left behind you did this to ease the pain….

    • Just kept to myself
    • Jumped into a new relationship
    • Hung out with friends
  • Question of

    While in a new relationship you would talk to your ex boyfriend behind your boyfriends back and talked about a future together or a whole lot of ‘What if’s’……..

    • Yes
    • We talked only for closure, to set each other straight.
    • We talked but not necessarily about us
  • Question of

    When you are in your ex-boyfriend’s surroundings you think of him…

    • sometimes, not really
    • I think of him only because his surroundings is a sore spot for me
    • I think of our good times together
  • Question of

    I talk to _____ even after me and him broke up…..

    • An old friend of his that became a mutual friend
    • classmate
    • His best friend
  • Question of

    What parts of your relationship with your ex do you think most about?

    • Just the summary of the relationship without going in depth
    • Good times
    • our sexual experiences
  • Question of

    How do you react when someone speaks of considering dating your ex again?

    • I think I’m better off not knowing
    • I think about trying again after I’m done with this boyfriend
    • I look at the pros and cons
  • Question of

    To this day can you still find the love you had for him, how do you feel now that you aren’t together any more, can you still remember the love that is lost?

    • I feel good knowing that I have experiences love and can check that off my list
    • I acknowledge it as love, but have no feelings any more
    • I remember it and it still sends butterflies through my tummy
  • Question of

    Do you use your ex-boyfriend to make your present boyfriend jealous?

    • Yes, and half the truth comes out with it
    • I do to get back at him, but I use an ex who didn’t mean a thing.
    • Moderately, only if he brings up his ex-girlfriend however
  • Question of

    What part of the relationship with your ex hurt the most, and you still recall with that little ping of pain?

    • No getting the proper closure I needed
    • feeling that I got nothing out of it and I’m missing something
    • Not being with him any more, seeing him any more
  • Question of

    Finally, can you still see yourself with him?

    • It wouldn’t work, that’s why we split in the first place
    • Yes I do, I want to give it another try should this relationship fail
    • I can, but I feel better seeing a future with my current boyfriend

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