Let’s See What Do People Think Of You?

 

 

Being envious of other people, for example, your neighbor buying a costlier car than yours and you feeling envious of them. While we are on the topic of envy, I will also like to clear out the concept that envy, jealousy, and shame are not the same. People often use them interchangeably and they don’t even realize it. While they don’t have drastic differences but it is enough that you could use them to solve these problems.

Being envious is basically the desire what others have, for the sole reason that they have and not you. It is very common among neighbors as I had stated earlier while you could also see them among siblings. Siblings often behave as if they are in a competition for their parent’s attention and love. It can also be seen in the child and the same-sex parent for the love of the opposite-sex parent. It is very common in families and we should address them as it could really impact the child’s mental growth. Many of the criminals have a history of not getting enough love from their parents. It is the sad reality of our society and we should treat it seriously.
“I love mankind … it’s people I can’t stand!!”
Charles M. Schulz

“Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.”
Oscar Wilde

“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
Maya Angelou

“I do not want people to be very agreeable, as it saves me the trouble of liking them a great deal.”
Jane Austen,

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.”
Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It’s time to put an end to this. It’s time for us to let ourselves be loved.”
C. JoyBell C.

“People are more difficult to work with than machines. And when you break a person, he can’t be fixed.”
Rick Riordan,

“Maybe ever’body in the whole damn world is scared of each other.”
John Steinbeck,

“Don’t waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.”
Paulo Coelho

“You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go of them. I tie no weights to my ankles.”
C. JoyBell C.

“I think there’s just one kind of folks. Folks.”
Harper Lee,

“The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don’t do anything about it.”
Albert Einstein

“I wonder how many people don’t get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to be with.”
Fannie Flagg,

“I feel too much. That’s what’s going on.’ ‘Do you think one can feel too much? Or just feel in the wrong ways?’ ‘My insides don’t match up with my outsides.’ ‘Do anyone’s insides and outsides match up?’ ‘I don’t know. I’m only me.’ ‘Maybe that’s what a person’s personality is: the difference between the inside and outside.’ ‘But it’s worse for me.’ ‘I wonder if everyone thinks it’s worse for him.’ ‘Probably. But it really is worse for me.”
Jonathan Safran Foer,

“When you’re surrounded by all these people, it can be lonelier than when you’re by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don’t feel like you can trust anyone or talk to anybody, you feel like you’re really alone.”
Fiona Apple

“People often claim to hunger for truth, but seldom like the taste when it’s served up.”
George R.R. Martin,

“I used to think I was the strangest person in the world
Rebecca Katherine Martin

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    You  are at the beach, and you lose the bottom part of your bathing suit to a giant wave, and the beach is REALLY crowded, so what would you do???????

    • You laugh at yourself, but call your mom to bring an extra bathing suit!!!!!!!(but stay in the water until she gets there)
    • You are SOOOOOOOOOOO embarassed, but you wait till no one is looking, and you get a towel from the shore.
    • If that ever happened to you, your social reputation would be ruined!!!!!! So, you stay in the water until almost everyone on the beach leaves.
    • As long as you are in the water no one can see you anyway, so, no worries!!!!!
    • You would never be caught in a two peice bathing suit anyway, so that could never happen!!!!!!
  • Question of

    You are invited to a bowling party, but you don’t know how to bowl!!!!!!!! If you want to have ANY friends, you have to be at this party. But how could you go if you know it will be a complete embarassment to your reputation!!!!!!!!

    • If you went, someone in your possy would teach you how to bowl and save your rep.
    • You go to have fun and laugh when you don’t do well….it’s better to try to have fun than to sit at home doing nothing!!!!
    • You go to the party, make yourself known, but then hide in the bathroom where you can’t be seen trying to bowl.
    • You don’t care about what people think of you, but you also don’t care about making friends, so you just stay home.
    • It would be a miracle if someone invited you to a party!!!!!
  • Question of

    You are in the mall parking lot walking inside. You forgot to check your look in the mirror before you got out of the car, so you look in the mirror on the car you are passing by. All the sudden, the window rolls down and you realize a group of people from your school/work were inside the car!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You:

    • Feel your face growing hot, but shyly pull it off. You smile and quickly head for the entrance to the mall.
    • Are happy (yet embarassed as well) to see some friends, and you simply reply: ‘Oh hey, guys! I would recognize your car ANYWHERE,(yeah right!) so i thought I would say hi!’ Then, you quickly change the subject.
    • Realize how red your face is, and don’t know what to say. When the people in the car start to laugh you stand strong and reply: ‘The Declaration of Independence CLEARLY states that we live in a free country and I can do whatever I want; so I am going to march out of here with some dignity, because I don’t care what you think(though you really did).’ and with that, you marched away, as you said you would.
    • Do you think I would ACTUALLY care what I look like????…..or go to the mall, for that matter…..
    • Laugh out loud with them, and playfully make funof yourself. Then, you ask them to go shopping with you, and they agree.
  • Question of

    You are invited to join a private club, but at the first meeting, they talk about your VERY best friend in a mean way. You are offended because you realize that this is basically just a ‘gossip group’ and you don’t like to talk about people. All of a sudden one of the girls asks you your opinion of your best friend, you say:

    • Um………….. I think she is nice.(but you are too scared to say anything else)
    • ( I would be the one who started the group, so my best friend would be in it!)
    • What group?????Never heard of it.
    • You tell them about something funny she did, and how she is such a good friend!!!!!!
    • You don’t really know what to say, so you try to distract, and then change the subject.
  • Question of

    You and a lot of friends are at the pool. It is PACKED with people. You all get in line for the diving board, and you are last, behind all of your friends. Each person does a front flip off of the board, and when it’s your turn, you step up to the high diving board. All of your friends look at you expectantly, waiting for you to do your flip. But you don’t know how!!!!!! You:

    • Well….the truth is….I can’t swim…..so I wouldn’t be at the pool in the first place. Well, I might stick my feet in the water, but ONLY if I found a modest one piece bathing suit.
    • I play it safe: if I was at the pool, I would be alone.
    • I don’t try to do a flip, but I show off my cannonball instead.
    • I try it, but once I jump off the diving board, I am too scared to flip around, so I pretty much just jump off. I’m so cool anyway, my friends don’t even care.
    • I can’t learn unless I try!!! I jump off, but end up doing a complete belly flop. Yeah, it hurts, but I laugh with my friends anyway!!!!!!!
  • Question of

    There were five shirts at the mall.  Out of these five colors: pink, green, grey,blue, yellow , which would you pick?

    • PINK
    • Yellow
    • Blue
    • Grey
    • Green
  • Question of

    What is your favorite dog breed?

    • Oh, I am allergic to dogs!!!
    • Yellow lab–they’re the best dogs ever!!!!!!!
    • Pink poodle…..duh!!!
    • Um….dogs? I prefer snakes.
    • I would buy an old dog,pret-trained, because they’re so quiet..
  • Question of

    If there was a new girl in school/work, and everyone was being mean to her, what would you do?

    • I wouldn’t do anything( who wants to be the wierd one)?
    • I would be mean to her along with everyone else, because if I didn’t, it woul d ruin my reputation.
    • I would help her with schoolwork/work but I would NEVER allow anyone to know what I was doing.
    • I would cheer her up and teach her good jokes, so she could make more friends.
    • I wouldn’t pick on her, but I wouldn’t become her friend either.
  • Question of

    What would you do if you were pulled over by a rude state trooper for going 2 miles over the speeding limit?

    • Use your people skills and get out of the ticket.
    • You go with the flow. You accept the ticket and move on with life….slower this time.
    • You bag on yourself for the rest of the day for going ‘so fast’ over the speeding limit.
    • You know that the trooper is being unfair, but you are too scared to stand up for yourself and and accept the ticket.
    • You use your hilairious personality and joke your way out of the ticket.
  • Question of

    You are walking through school/work and someone purposely trips you and knocks your things out of your hands. You handle this by:

    • Someone being mean to me??? Like that would ever happen!!!!!
    • Picking up your things and pretending it never happened. Why bother?
    • Setting the person straight and tell them it is against the rules to do something like that. Then, you tell your boss/headmaster.
    • Thinking of how you would like to tell the person off, but, then again, you don’t care about making friends anyway.
    • Making the person feel uncomfortable by making a joke about him/her.
  • Question of

    You kindly offered to make dinner for your family, but your mom is constantly over your shoulder correcting your cooking skills- even when you know you are doing everything right. You are starting to get really annoyed and you:

    • Pretend she’s not there–maybe she will go away.
    • Try to impress your mom by showing her the recipe directions so she’ll know you are doing all the steps correctly.
    • Laugh and kindly joke about how you ‘can cook better than your mom’, and try to laugh it off.
    • Smile and try to make it look like your fixing the problem, because you know you’re doing it right but don’t want to be rude as well.
    • Show your mom the directions and show her that you are performing the cooking procedure accurately.
  • Question of

    You are playing with your friends and they decide to split up in to groups. You are picked last, so , how do you handle it?????

    • You would never get picked last, because you are always the person who chooses!!!!!!
    • You tell them that you are being treated unfairly, and if they had more ‘rules’ it would run more smoothly.
    • You laugh it off(as always)and joke with them about how you always get picked last.
    • You could care less who picked you and when……..at least you were invited to be with so many people.
    • You are kind of upset, but no one would know by looking at you……… you feel it’s best to go along with it, rather than causing confusion.

How Much Do People Like You?

How perverted are you?