Love, Lust Or Infatuation?

 

“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Where She Went

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, I’ll Give You the Sun

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Has he/she told you their phone number? If so, have you talked on the phone with him/her?

    • No
    • Yes
    • No, but I’m going to ask for his/her number
  • Question of

    How often do you two talk (by any means)?

    • About once a week
    • Almost/every night/day
    • We don’t really talk at all
  • Question of

    Do you know him/her as a person? Do you two share secrets or talk about things you wouldn’t talk about in front of friends? Has he/she confided in you his/her life story, etc?

    • Yes, very well
    • Not really – who cares about that stuff? I’d rather jump into bed with him/her!
    • Yes, but only a little – we’re not very talkative
  • Question of

    If you had to borrow some money from him/her, would you repay them – or hope they just forget about it?

    • I’d hope they’d forget about it
    • I’d repay them, of course!
    • It depends on the situation
  • Question of

    Imagine yourself living in his/her skin, acting like and doing what he/she would normally do. Can you?

    • I guess it wouldn’t be that hard if I really tried
    • BORING! I wouldn’t want to be him/her
    • I’d feel perfectly comfortable with it – in fact, I’d love to be a part of what he/she likes to do
  • Question of

    How long do you want to be with him/her?

    • When he/she gets boring, I’m out of here!
    • I don’t know – we haven’t talked about it
    • For a long time, maybe the rest of my life
  • Question of

    What do you like about him/her the most?

    • I think he/she is really attractive – I guess they’ll be a nice person, too
    • He/she is really hot and cute!
    • I think he/she is a genuine, trustworthy person – who isn’t bad-looking, either:)
  • Question of

    Why did you take this quiz?

    • I wanted to know if he/she loves me, too!
    • Just out of curiosity. I know he/she loves me – I don’t need a test to tell me. All this person has to do is call and say it
    • Because I wanted to find out what this person thinks of me – he/she is really good-looking!
  • Question of

    Do you love this person?

    • No, of course not
    • I guess so! Look at the way I checked him/her out the other day!
    • Of course I do – and he/she knows it
  • Question of

    Which dating show would you want to be on most?

    • ‘The Bachelor’ or ‘The Bachelorette’
    • ‘Dating Naked’
    • ‘The Dating Game’
    • ‘Blind Date’
  • Question of

    Who’s your dream celebrity date?

    • Channing Tatum.
    • Marlin Monroe.
    • Tom Hardy.
    • Julia Roberts.
    • Just someone hot.
  • Question of

    What do you say to get someone interested in you?

    • I’ll write you a song.
    • Wanna see my pet rock?!
    • Tell me about your dreams.
    • I love your style.
  • Question of

    How did you handle your first fight in your last relationship?

    • I went on a long walk.
    • We talked things out.
    • We yelled and then we did other stuff 😉
    • We haven’t had a fight yet.
  • Question of

    On a scale of one to four (one being the most superficial), how superficial are you when it comes to looks?

    • One.
    • Two.
    • Three.
    • Four.
  • Question of

    What’s your relationship status?

    • Single.
    • Taken.
    • Married.
    • It’s complicated.
  • Question of

    Have you used dating apps before?

    • You name it, I’ve tried it.
    • A few.
    • It’s my first time.
    • I’ve never really thought about using them.
  • Question of

    Have you been dumped?

    • I’ve seen both sides of the spectrum.
    • I dumped them.
    • No.
    • Yes.
  • Question of

    Have you ever received an inappropriate pick?

    • Only when I was dating my ex.
    • Too many to count.
    • I don’t understand the question, and I won’t respond to it.
    • No…and I have a weird complex about it.
  • Question of

    Do you kiss on a first date?

    • Who doesn’t?
    • Depends on how many drinks I’ve had *wink*.
    • Never!
    • Only if I really like the person.
  • Question of

    Do you know his/her name?

    • No
    • Does it really matter?
    • Yes

Relationship Quiz: Is he the ‘one’?

Is it lust?