Love or just sex?


“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“Have you ever noticed how parents can go from the most wonderful people in the world to totally embarrassing in three seconds?”
Rick Riordan,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he text you a lot?

    • Yes, but only to ask if I can hang.
    • Not really, only if he’s bored.
    • Yes, all the time.
    • No, I always start the conversation.
  • Question of

    Does he ask you a lot if you’re home alone?

    • Yes and he always wants to come right over
    • Never, he doesn’t mind
    • Yes and then we always have sex
    • Sometimes but he never comes
  • Question of

    Does he ever say that you are ‘beautiful’?

    • Sometimes when I worked hard on my make-up
    • Yes and calls me princess
    • Only when he’s drunk
    • No, he says I’m hot.
  • Question of

    Did he ever meet your parents?

    • All the time
    • One time, it was an accident
    • He always cancels
    • No, he only wants to hang home alone
  • Question of

    Does he has a history as a player?

    • No he had some girlfriends, nothing much.
    • A long time ago, he has changed.
    • Yes but I don’t believe it.
    • No he never had a girlfriend
  • Question of

    When you see him, how does he greet you?

    • I get a hug
    • He gives me a kiss on my check
    • He gives me a kiss on my mouth
  • Question of

    How does he act when you’re with him?

    • He’s always on his phone
    • We have long talks, he looks at me really cute and laughs alot
    • It’s kind of awkward, we talk about nothing
  • Question of

    How would you describe him?

    • Cute, funny, shy, open about emotions, romantic
    • Flirty, good with small talk, funny
    • Closed, flirty, manipulative
  • Question of

    Have you ever met his friends?

    • Not really, he mentions them sometimes
    • No I have no idea who they are
    • Yes but I already knew them before him
    • Yes, we hang out all the time
  • Question of

    How long do you know him?

    • A year
    • Few days
    • 1+ year
    • Couple months
    • Couple weeks
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    How soon did he fall for you and ask you out?

    • It was love at first sight for him
    • Within a week
    • After a month
    • After two months or so
  • Question of

    Does he mostly contact you after 6:00 pm?

    • Yes
    • No, we talk all day long
    • Yes, ONLY at night
  • Question of

    Does he flood you with compliments?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Sometimes
    • Never, I wish he did
  • Question of

    Does he include you in his future goals or is very serious about an open relationship with you?

    • Yes
    • No, he says he wants to be more sure
    • He never talks about this
  • Question of

    Did he tell his friends, family or people close to him about liking you?

    • No, he wants to keep it a secret
    • Yes, his friends know me
    • Yes, everyone close to him knows about me
  • Question of

    Is he good at keeping promises?

    • No, he always says one thing and does the opposite
    • Yes!
  • Question of

    Does he flirt with other girls?

    • No, he shows no interest in them
    • I don’t think so
    • Yes, he does when he gets the chance
    • All the time
  • Question of

    Has he ever said ANYTHING mean to you that made you feel bad?

    • Yes, a lot of times
    • No, he is a nice guy
    • Yes, a couple of times

Am I The Jealous Type? (In Relationships)

How much of it is love?