My boy broke up with me but does he secretly still like me?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he talk to you about other love interests in his life?

    • Yes. He’s made it obvious that he has someone new.
    • No … but I know he has them.
    • No, and I’m sure there’s no one else.
    • Sometimes, but I think he’s just trying to make me jealous.
  • Question of

    When did he break up with you?

    • Yesterday
    • Today
    • More than 5 weeks ago
    • Less than 4 weeks ago
    • Less than a week ago
  • Question of

    Did he give a reason why he broke up with you?

    • Yes
    • I don’t want to know!
    • No
  • Question of

    If he did why? (If he didn’t why do you think he did?)

    • He still likes me but my personality puts him off
    • I was to shy
    • He liked somebody else
    • He just didn’t like me anymore
    • He still likes me but I was to shy
  • Question of

    Do you miss him and would do anything to get him back?

    • No
    • No not really
    • Heck ye! I miss him so much
    • Yes
    • I miss him but wouldn’t give anything to get him back
  • Question of

    Does he still talk to you at or after school? Maybe call you or sms/e-mail?

    • Sometimes
    • Yes, but we just talk at school
    • Yes all the time
    • No not one of them
  • Question of

    Has he ever told his or your friends that he still likes you?

    • Not that I know of
    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he make a effort to say ‘Hi’ when he sees you?

    • No
    • Sometimes
    • Yes he would skip class just to say hi!
    • Yes
    • Not at all
  • Question of

    Do you think that he still likes you?

    • no
    • yes
    • Maybe
    • Don’t really know
    • Sometimes I see that look in his eyes!
  • Question of

    When he broke up with you did he say that he still wants to be friends?

    • Yes
    • Yes he made it clear!
    • No
  • Question of

    If somebody else asked you out would he care? (If you don’t know what do you think his reaction would be?)

    • No
    • He wouldn’t care less
    • He would go crazy
    • Yes, but he wouldn’t go crazy
    • I really don’t know
  • Question of

    Is he nasty to you when he sees you?

    • Yes
    • Not at all
    • No
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    Do you want to be with him right now?

    • I would give anything!
    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Did he ever say to you…. I miss you?

    • No
    • Not at all
    • Yes
    • All the time!
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    Did you smile answering some of these questions?

    • Almost all of them
    • With 1 or 2 of them
    • With 4 or 6 of them
    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Did you ever held hands with him?

    • No
    • No, he wanted to but I wasn’t ready
    • The day before he broke up with me we went to the movies and held hands
    • Just at the movies
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Are you two currently in contact?

    • Nope!
    • Yes, we interact on social media.
    • We have coffee every once in a while.
    • We’re so close, it’s like we never broke up.
  • Question of

    Who initiates your conversations?

    • He’s blocked my number.
    • Sometimes he initiates, but only late at night.
    • He does.
    • I do.
  • Question of

    Do you ever hang out?

    • Not on purpose
    • Yes, every once in a while
    • If we run into each other, we’ll often get a drink together.
    • We hang out constantly.
  • Question of

    At what time of day does your ex usually contact you?

    • 2 a.m.
    • It varies. There’s no specific time.
    • Once he gets off work, he barrages me with texts.
    • He never contacts me.

Does your ex still love you after being forced to stay away

Does your ex still want you?