Quiz: Am I Ready For A Relationship?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, I’ll Give You the Sun

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Where She Went

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Watermelon

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Survivor

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What if there is your favorite baseball game tonight that you were too excited for but your best friend calls about some sudden urgency with her/his partner, well they could call anyone but only called you. What will you do now?

    • I won’t cancel my night plan, best friend should call some other friend.
    • Com’on not today! But what can be done, I will have to go to my friend.
    • I will definitely go to my best friend, not even a single thought of the game would stop me.
    • I am not sure, I guess I will ask them if it’s a big urgency or not.
  • Question of

    Do you think of your romantic partners very often?

    • All the time
    • A couple times a day
    • Rarely
    • Almost never
  • Question of

    Do you send your romantic partners little texts and emails periodically to let them know they are in your thoughts?

    • Once a day or so
    • Five or nine times a day
    • Once a week or so
    • Never
  • Question of

    Do you often do little favors for your romantic partners like buying them flowers?

    • A few times a year
    • Once a year
    • Once a relationship
    • Never
  • Question of

    Can you stay monogamous?

    • Absolutely
    • Maybe, but I haven’t tried it yet.
    • I don’t think so.
    • No way
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    How jealous are you?

    • I don’t get jealous.
    • I get a little jealous sometimes.
    • I am a very jealous person.
    • I brim with jealousy all the time.
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    How often do you plan little getaways for your romantic partners?

    • A few times a year
    • Once a year
    • Once, ever
    • Never
  • Question of

    How much do you know about the families of your romantic partners?

    • Loads, probably more than they know themselves.
    • I know a bit here and there, but I forget names easily.
    • I know their parents’ names, I think.
    • I know nothing of them.
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    How much time do you want to spend around your romantic partners’ families?

    • Loads! They’re great!
    • Holidays are always fun with them.
    • I’ll see them when I have to.
    • I never want to see them.
  • Question of

    How good are you at delaying your own gratification?

    • Very good
    • Pretty good
    • I can do it but don’t do it often.
    • I’m awful at that.
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    How thoughtful are you?

    • I’m a very thoughtful person.
    • I’m pretty thoughtful most of the time.
    • I have my thoughtful moments.
    • I’m completely thoughtless.
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    How much work do you put into your friendships?

    • I put a lot of work into my friendships.
    • I put a decent amount of work into my friendships.
    • I put very little work into my friendships.
    • I put no work into friendships. If they don’t work out, it’s because they weren’t meant to be.
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    How willing are you to honor your values?

    • I always honor my values
    • I rarely compromise.
    • I’m not too driven by my values.
    • I have no values.
  • Question of

    Are you willing to side against your own friends, to side with your significant other?

    • Yes, if it comes to that.
    • Probably, depending on the issue
    • Not my very best friends
    • Not at all
  • Question of

    Are you willing to stand up to your own family, in order to take the side of your significant other?

    • Of course I would.
    • I probably would.
    • I probably wouldn’t.
    • I would always side with my family.
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    Are you willing to police your ‘friends’ on Facebook when they take a shot at your significant other?

    • Yes, I’ll be all over that.
    • I will do it if it’s major, but otherwise just hope it goes unnoticed.
    • I don’t think I could do that very often.
    • I can’t publicly stand up to my friends! How would that look?
  • Question of

    How long was your longest relationship thus far?

    • A couple years
    • A few months
    • A week or two
    • A day or two
  • Question of

    Have you ever truly loved someone romantically?

    • Yes, a couple times
    • Yes, once
    • I thought I had, but it was just puppy love.
    • No, never
  • Question of

    Assuming you once thought you were going into a long term relationship and it ended abruptly, how did it end?

    • It was a mutual breakup.
    • I did the dumping.
    • I got dumped.
    • I got arrested.
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    Are you prepared to deal with a romantic partner whose religious devotions are different from yours?

    • Yes, I am.
    • As long as it isn’t too alien, I’m up for it.
    • I don’t know for sure.
    • Definitely not.
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    Are you prepared to deal with a romantic partner whose taste in popular culture is totally different from yours?

    • Yes, I am.
    • I think I’d be okay with that so long as it is reciprocated.
    • I don’t know how often I’d be cool with that.
    • Absolutely not.
  • Question of

    How comfortable are you being yourself?

    • 80-100%
    • 60-80%
    • 40-60%
    • Less than 40%
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10, how confident are you?

    • Less than 4
    • 4-6
    • 6-8
    • 8-10
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    How often do you let people walk over you?

    • Never.
    • Rarely.
    • Sometimes.
    • Pretty often.
  • Question of

    How high are your standards?

    • What standards?
    • Reasonable.
    • Pretty high.
    • To the sky.
  • Question of

    What do you value most in a partner?

    • Loyalty.
    • Honesty.
    • Money.
    • Their looks.
  • Question of

    What would you do if a friend asked you to do something that you really didn’t want to do?

    • Apologize right away and not do it.
    • Think hard and don’t do it.
    • Give it some thought and still do it.
    • I’d do it anyway.
  • Question of

    How long do you wait until you’re intimate with someone you just started dating?

    • A few days.
    • About a week.
    • About a month.
    • A few months.
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    How often do you put yourself out there?

    • Rarely.
    • All the time.
    • Never.
    • Sometimes.
  • Question of

    What would you do it you just started dating and it’s really exciting and suddenly your partner wants to move with you?

    • I would rather move with my friends than my partner.
    • Of course yes, we are already dating so it means we know each other very well.
    • I would ask him/her to wait for a few months, so we could get to know more about each others lifestyles.
    • No, I don’t think so, I am a free person, moving with someone makes you feel bounded to rules.

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