Should I ask him to be my boyfriend?

 

“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“Have you ever noticed how parents can go from the most wonderful people in the world to totally embarrassing in three seconds?”
Rick Riordan,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    For how long has he liked you?

    • 1 – 2 years
    • 6 – 12 months
    • 1 – 6 months
    • I don’t know if he even likes me
  • Question of

    For how long have you liked him?

    • 6 – 12 months
    • 1 – 2 years
    • 1 – 6 months
    • I don’t like him
  • Question of

    Are you crushes?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I guess
    • Sort of…
  • Question of

    How often do you guys text?

    • Never
    • All the time, every day!
    • Sometimes
    • Only if we got to
  • Question of

    Does he know you like him, if you do?

    • I’ve been giving hints…
    • Yes, duh!
    • I don’t know
    • No way!
  • Question of

    Has he ever asked you if you’re ready to be in a relationship (or anything related to that question)?

    • Yes, and I said yes!
    • Yes, but I said no.
    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you want to be with him?

    • I’m thinking about it, but I’m skeptical.
    • I guess
    • No way!
    • Yeah!
  • Question of

    What do your friends say to the idea of being together?

    • It’s your choice.
    • Ummm…
    • They don’t know!
    • You guys are perfect for each other!
  • Question of

    Have you tried asking him?

    • Yes, but he said no
    • Yes, and he said yes!
    • No
    • Mhm…
  • Question of

    What do you, personally think about the idea of being together?

    • No way!
    • We have similarities.
    • I guess / I don’t know.
    • Yes, we’re perfect!
  • Question of

    What’s your ideal first date?

    • Coffee or some other setting where we can get to know one another.
    • Something special that they planned with me in mind.
    • Hot air balloons. And concerts. Maybe a road trip.
    • Classic dinner and a movie are fine.
  • Question of

    What would you say is your best quality?

    • I’m a great relationship-builder.
    • I care deeply about others.
    • I’m excited about life.
    • I’m logical and great at planning.
  • Question of

    Which trait is most important to you in a partner?

    • Willingness to put in effort
    • Thoughtfulness
    • A sense of adventure
    • Rational decision-making
  • Question of

    It’s time to meet your partner’s family for the first time. How are you feeling?

    • I’m nervous; it’s important to me that we have a good relationship.
    • I’m okay; I’d do anything for my partner.
    • I’m good! I love meeting new people.
    • I’m okay. We’ve been planning this for a while so I could brace myself.
  • Question of

    Which physical aspect is most attractive to you in a partner?

    • Arms
    • Eyes
    • Smile
    • Shoulders
  • Question of

    How do you want to spend your first anniversary with your partner?

    • Going back and repeating our first date
    • It doesn’t matter, as long as they’ve planned something thoughtful.
    • On a new, crazy adventure!
    • A quiet, classic celebration together is fine.
  • Question of

    How do you feel about marriage?

    • Great, as long as we have a great connection.
    • Good, as long as the people in our lives approve.
    • It depends on the day.
    • If we’d been together for a long time and weighed our options, I’d be open to it.
  • Question of

    Your partner brings home a small surprise at the end of the day; you love it. What’s the surprise?

    • Flowers
    • Wine
    • A dog
    • Chocolates
  • Question of

    Your partner asks what you feel like doing this weekend. What’s your answer?

    • We should go on a hike and spend time alone together.
    • Let’s spend our time volunteering.
    • Let’s go skydiving. Or fly cross-country.
    • A nice weekend on the couch sounds good.
  • Question of

    How long do you tend to date someone before moving in?

    • It depends; a couple of years​ if the relationship feels solid.
    • No less than a year
    • A few dates, at least
    • Probably not until after marriage

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