Should I Get Back With My Ex?

  • Question of

    Who chose to break it off?

    • He did, I messed up big time.
    • I did, he messed up big time.
    • He did, and I don’t know why.
    • We just drifted apart.
    • I did, I just felt it was right.
  • Question of

    Does he still like you?

    • Yes, at least I think so.
    • Probably not
    • I have no idea
    • Definitely not
    • Absolutely
  • Question of

    Was he a good boyfriend?

    • He cheated/abused/teased me
    • Mostly, but he slipped up every so often
    • Yes, he was very doting and sweet.
    • He was average I guess?
  • Question of

    How many boyfriends have you had?

    • He is my second or third
    • I have lost track
    • Fourth or fifth?
    • He is my first.
    • Sixth or more
  • Question of

    What would you do if he started dating someone else?

    • Smile and laugh, but be hurt inside
    • Cry for hours
    • Am I supposed to care?
    • Oh wow he forgot about me real quick
    • Good for him!
  • Question of

    How was your breakup?

    • Super chill, we both agreed
    • It broke me, I’m still not over it
    • I was upset, but that is normal
    • Very confusing…
    • One of us got violent
  • Question of

    Be honest with yourself… Do you miss him

    • I thought I did… but maybe I… Don’t?
    • I guess
    • Yes, every single second
    • Not. At. All.
    • One second I think I do and the other I don’t
  • Question of

    Why do you miss him?

    • He made me feel good
    • He was super hot
    • He made me feel good, he was hot, AND he cared
    • He really cared about me
    • He elevated my status, or, I liked the attention
  • Question of

    Do you think he misses you?

    • We haven’t talked
    • He does not
    • I have no clue
    • He told my friend/ acquaintance he did
    • He definitely does
  • Question of

    What does the thought of you two back together make you feel?

    • I can’t tell
    • A little weird
    • …not good
    • Whole
    • Over the moon
  • Question of

    Are you two currently in contact?

    • Nope!
    • Yes, we interact on social media.
    • We have coffee every once in a while.
    • We’re so close, it’s like we never broke up.
  • Question of

    Who initiates your conversations?

    • He’s blocked my number.
    • Sometimes he initiates, but only late at night.
    • He does.
    • I do.
  • Question of

    Do you ever hang out?

    • Not on purpose
    • Yes, every once in a while
    • If we run into each other, we’ll often get a drink together.
    • We hang out constantly.
  • Question of

    At what time of day does your ex usually contact you?

    • He never contacts me.
    • 2 a.m.
    • It varies. There’s no specific time.
    • Once he gets off work, he barrages me with texts.
  • Question of

    Does he talk to you about other love interests in his life?

    • Yes. He’s made it obvious that he has someone new.
    • No … but I know he has them.
    • No, and I’m sure there’s no one else.
    • Sometimes, but I think he’s just trying to make me jealous.
  • Question of

    When you run into him, how does he act?

    • Cold
    • Mildly embarrassed
    • Incredibly happy
    • Sometimes pleased, sometimes awkward
  • Question of

    How do his friends treat you?

    • They’re rude to me.
    • I don’t really know any of his friends.
    • They’re really nice to me.
    • I think they wish we weren’t together.
  • Question of

    Do you notice him flirting with other people on social media?

    • I can’t tell, since he’s blocked me on social media.
    • Yes. He’s always liking other people’s photos on Instagram.
    • No. But he likes everything that I post.
    • Yes, sometimes I see him going back-and-forth with various people. To tell the truth, we fight about it.
  • Question of

    When you talk about other guys, does he seem jealous?

    • No
    • He seems amused … but I think he’s a tiny bit jealous.
    • He doesn’t act jealous; he acts hurt.
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Did you two have a relatively amicable breakup?

    • No. We had a terrible fight and haven’t spoken since.
    • It was pretty friendly … almost as if we weren’t really breaking up.
    • We both tried to stay civil, but it was really sad.
    • Our breakup was messy AF.

Do I Still Love My Ex?

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