Should I get over my crush?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does your crush hangs out with boys more or girls?

    • Girls for life!
    • Mostly girls
    • Both
    • Boys, duh!
    • Mostly boys
  • Question of

    Have you ever felt jealous when your crush is closed to a girl/boy? (opposite genders as them)

    • Eh, I’ don’t really care
    • Yes, and I hate it:(
    • I was tearful for some reason
    • No, it’s just his/her friend
  • Question of

    What do your friends think about your crush?

    • Hot & Cute
    • Nah don’t ship
    • My friends don’t know her/him
    • Average
    • Dorky & Weird
  • Question of

    Do you have he/she phone number?

    • He/she doesn’t even have a phone!
    • No, and I do not want it
    • No, but I want to have it:(
    • Yes, omg I want to text him so badly but I’m too shy
    • Yes, and we texted each others a lot
  • Question of

    Does he followed you on any social media account?

    • Yes, and I followed him back too
    • Yes just a few apps
    • No, he doesn’t know that I have any social media app
    • No, I followed him only
    • Yes, and he liked all my post
  • Question of

    Do you really think he likes you? (be honest)

    • No, and I’m trying to get over him ughhh
    • Maybe, I’m not too sure half half
    • Well he/she is being super nice but it might just be ”friendzoned”
    • Yesss, of course
    • Yes, and I will ask he/she out soon
  • Question of

    How long have you been crushing on she/he?

    • The day he enters my life!
    • Since childhood!
    • Years!
    • Weeks!
    • Months!
  • Question of

    Do you guys made eye contact a lot of times?

    • Yes, through my phone screen
    • Yes
    • No
    • Yes, but I quickly looked away
    • Yes, but he quickly looked away
  • Question of

    How often do you see her/him?

    • 50/50 chances
    • Everyday!
    • Twice a week?
    • Once in a month
    • Not much!
  • Question of

    If your crush walk past you in the hallway wear does he look at?

    • Well, he/she just looks down on the ground and continues to walk
    • He/she looked at me then looked away quickly
    • Somewhere else
    • Nah he/she doesn’t look at me
    • Directly in my eyes
  • Question of

    Describe your crush personality

    • Quiet and shy
    • Funny and goofy
    • Boring but nice 😉
    • Bad boy
    • He’s a maniac

Am I Over Him?

Are you still in love with you ex? Or are you over him?