Should I Tell My Crush I Like Him? (Girls)


“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“We know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all, for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.”
Albert Einstein

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you two talk a lot?

    • Yes!:)
    • We say hi in the halls, etc.
    • No. He doesn’t know I exist
  • Question of

    How much do you know about him?

    • Nothing
    • His hobbies, where he lives, what he likes (i.e., personal stuff)
    • Address, phone number, public/shared info
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes you?

    • No. He hates me
    • Yep. He’s hinted at it
    • I don’t know. He’s my CRUSH, but I don’t know if I should even tell him
  • Question of

    When he talks to you, he looks:

    • Into my eyes
    • Around at other girls
    • Somewhere else (art project, ground, etc.)
  • Question of

    Do you ever snap back to reality after realizing you were daydreaming about him?

    • No, never
    • Sometimes
    • That’s called ‘every day’
  • Question of

    When you do talk to him, how do you feel?

    • Nothing new
    • Deep hatred
    • Speechless, and my stomach is filled with butterflies!
  • Question of

    Is he:

    • Single?
    • Taken?
    • Does it matter? He HATES ME!
  • Question of

    You drop your books. He:

    • Helps me pick them up
    • Laughs and walks away
    • Helps me pick them up and walks me to wherever I’m going
  • Question of

    How does he act around you?

    • He gives me long, hateful stares
    • He’s nervous – and blushing, perhaps
    • He treats me like a friend
  • Question of

    If he got a girlfriend, you would:

    • Freak out, stomp up to him and tell him my whole life story
    • I can wait. I’m fine. *Sighs*
    • Nothing – he walks right past me, anyway
  • Question of

    How do you feel about him?

    • I truly like him, we get along so well!
    • I just hope he noticed me today.
    • It`s an emotional roller coaster….I hate that I like him.
    • I like him but I have to admit, his friends are cute too.
  • Question of

    Is he open to talk to you?

    • Yes we had a few dates.
    • No, he avoids me.
    • He smiled at me back when I do it.
    • Yes, I dated him but I dated other boys too.
  • Question of

    Is he single?

    • Yes.
    • No.
    • Yes but he just broke up with his girlfriend.
    • I don`t know, never asked.
  • Question of

    When you are with your friends and he sees you….

    • He says hi to my friends but talks mostly with me.
    • Ignores us.
    • He says hi and talks to everyone and tries to be friendly.
    • We talk for a bit and then I go back to my friends.
  • Question of

    Do you call each other?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Rarely.
    • I don`t have his phone no.
  • Question of

    Have you been on a date with him?

    • Yes.
    • No.
    • Not yet.
    • He asked me out and I refused/had other plans.
  • Question of

    Does he give you compliments?

    • Sure, sometimes.
    • Never.
    • He told me I had pretty clothes once.
    • Yes but I want more.
  • Question of

    What do your friends think about him?

    • That he is friendly and nice.
    • That he is ignorant and mean.
    • That he is not your type.
    • That he is funny.
  • Question of

    Does he laugh at your jokes?

    • We do laugh a lot.
    • No, he thinks I`m immature.
    • Sometimes, we are still shy.
    • His roommate likes my jokes more.
  • Question of

    Why do you like him?

    • He completes me.
    • He is a challenge.
    • He is cute.
    • I don`t know. I just do.

How is your love life?

Are you realistic about your love life?