Should We Break Up Or Just Make Up?


“He loved her for almost everything she was & she decided that was enough to let him stay for a very long time.”
Brian Andreas

“Through my love for you, I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity, and all beings. By living with you, I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth… This is the real message of love.”
Thich Nhat Hanh,

“Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart.”
Christina Westover

“I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“That’s why I loved being with you. We could do the simplest things, like toss starfish into the ocean and share a burger and talk and even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn’t constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me. And nothing else mattered– not my family or your family or anyone else in the world. It was just us.”
Nicholas Sparks,

“You like every one; that is to say, you are indifferent to every one.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Rejection is an opportunity for your selection.”
Bernard Branson

“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere.”
Tim McGraw

“He wasn’t the type for displays of affection, either verbal or not. He was disgusted by couples that made out in the hallways between classes, and got annoyed at even the slightest sappy moments in movies. But I knew he cared about me: he just conveyed it more subtly, as concise with expressing this emotion as he was with everything else. It was in the way he’d put his hand on the small of my back, for instance, or how he’d smile at me when I said something that surprised him. Once I might have wanted more, but I’d come around to his way of thinking in the time we’d been together. And we were together, all the time. So he didn’t have to prove how he felt about me. Like so much else, I should just know.”
Sarah Dessen,

“You fit into me
Margaret Atwood

“Annabeth,” he said hesitantly, “in New Rome, demigods can live their whole lives in peace.”
Rick Riordan,

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
Mandy Hale,

“I won’t telephone him. I’ll never telephone him again as long as I live. He’ll rot in hell, before I’ll call him up. You don’t have to give me strength, God; I have it myself. If he wanted me, he could get me. He knows where I am. He knows I’m waiting here. He’s so sure of me, so sure. I wonder why they hate you, as soon as they are sure of you.”
Dorothy Parker,

“When God knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.”
Joshua Harris,

“We ruined each other by being together. We destroyed each other’s dreams.”
Kate Chisman,

“You Can’t Lose Something You Never Had”
Kate G. Hudson

“Don’t worry about hurting me, if that’s what you’re afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.”
Katie Kacvinsky,

“Perfectly Imperfect
Steve Maraboli,

“If you’re trapped in the dream of the Other, you’re fucked.”
Gilles Deleuze

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Are you avoiding your partner right now because you’re afraid of the outcome?

    • Heck yeah!
    • Trying to, but I know it’s wrong
    • No, communication comes first before avoiding anything
  • Question of

    Have you been listening to music or watching movies that represent your relationship situation right now, and it just kills you inside?

    • Yeah, and it just makes it worse
    • No, that would just make it worse
    • I’m staying away from that – it only makes me fear the worst
  • Question of

    When you’re in an argument with your partner, it’s usually:

    • Serious
    • Stupid
    • Neither (we don’t argue)
  • Question of

    Do you two go without talking or seeing each other for days on end out of the blue?

    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • It happens a lot
  • Question of

    Has your partner ever forgotten an event they knew was important to you – just brushed it off?

    • No
    • Once or twice (but never again)
    • Yeah (one to many times)
  • Question of

    Have you ever cried in a negative way or been overly upset for days at a time because of your partner?

    • Yeah, and it hurt
    • Actually, no
    • It happened before, but it worked out fine
  • Question of

    Do your peers often give you the same advice – to just let go, and if your partner comes back, they truly care?

    • A majority of the time
    • They’ve never given me advice even close to that
    • No one has told me that, but right now I feel like that’s what I should do
  • Question of

    Does you partner ever try to flip a situation on you, making you seem like the one hurting them?

    • Yes, and it makes me furious!
    • They did, but realized it wasn’t that way
    • It always feels like that
  • Question of

    Have you said words that come close to ‘I love you,’ or even those words, but now you regret it?

    • Maybe a little
    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Does your partner say they want to be in the relationship, but what they do makes it seem like they don’t?

    • Yes
    • Yes, but we talked and worked it out
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you constantly feel the pressure of not knowing where you and your partner are in the relationship?

    • Yeah, and it hurts so much
    • No – but it will become like that if they don’t start stepping up
    • Sometimes, but once they know how I’m feeling, they understand
  • Question of

    Do you feel as if you’re putting all your emotions in a basket, but your partner still isn’t understanding you?

    • Nope
    • Yeah: /
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    When you try to think about breaking up, you think of every good thing they have done, and that it isn’t worth it to break up – no matter how much they are hurting you at the moment?

    • Yeah
    • One or twice
    • No, I’m washing my hands and leaving
  • Question of

    On average, how much do you doubt the relationship?

    • 0%-30%
    • 35%-45%
    • 50%-100%
  • Question of

    Do you think saying, ‘I love you’ will bring you out of a relationship crisis right now?

    • Yeah
    • No, we need to talk about it and work on it
    • It’s crossed my mind to try it – but mostly, no

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