Should We Break Up Or Just Make Up?

  • Question of

    Are you avoiding your partner right now because you’re afraid of the outcome?

    • Heck yeah!
    • Trying to, but I know it’s wrong
    • No, communication comes first before avoiding anything
  • Question of

    Have you been listening to music or watching movies that represent your relationship situation right now, and it just kills you inside?

    • Yeah, and it just makes it worse
    • No, that would just make it worse
    • I’m staying away from that – it only makes me fear the worst
  • Question of

    When you’re in an argument with your partner, it’s usually:

    • Serious
    • Stupid
    • Neither (we don’t argue)
  • Question of

    Do you two go without talking or seeing each other for days on end out of the blue?

    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • It happens a lot
  • Question of

    Has your partner ever forgotten an event they knew was important to you – just brushed it off?

    • No
    • Once or twice (but never again)
    • Yeah (one to many times)
  • Question of

    Have you ever cried in a negative way or been overly upset for days at a time because of your partner?

    • Yeah, and it hurt
    • Actually, no
    • It happened before, but it worked out fine
  • Question of

    Do your peers often give you the same advice – to just let go, and if your partner comes back, they truly care?

    • A majority of the time
    • They’ve never given me advice even close to that
    • No one has told me that, but right now I feel like that’s what I should do
  • Question of

    Does you partner ever try to flip a situation on you, making you seem like the one hurting them?

    • Yes, and it makes me furious!
    • They did, but realized it wasn’t that way
    • It always feels like that
  • Question of

    Have you said words that come close to ‘I love you,’ or even those words, but now you regret it?

    • Maybe a little
    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Does your partner say they want to be in the relationship, but what they do makes it seem like they don’t?

    • Yes
    • Yes, but we talked and worked it out
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you constantly feel the pressure of not knowing where you and your partner are in the relationship?

    • Yeah, and it hurts so much
    • No – but it will become like that if they don’t start stepping up
    • Sometimes, but once they know how I’m feeling, they understand
  • Question of

    Do you feel as if you’re putting all your emotions in a basket, but your partner still isn’t understanding you?

    • Nope
    • Yeah: /
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    When you try to think about breaking up, you think of every good thing they have done, and that it isn’t worth it to break up – no matter how much they are hurting you at the moment?

    • Yeah
    • One or twice
    • No, I’m washing my hands and leaving
  • Question of

    On average, how much do you doubt the relationship?

    • 0%-30%
    • 35%-45%
    • 50%-100%
  • Question of

    Do you think saying, ‘I love you’ will bring you out of a relationship crisis right now?

    • Yeah
    • No, we need to talk about it and work on it
    • It’s crossed my mind to try it – but mostly, no

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

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