Should we break up?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you love him (I know this is a weird question but bare with me)?

    • I don’t know…
    • Of course I do!
    • I think so…
    • No……
  • Question of

    Are you in love with him? (There’s a difference between love and in love lol)?

    • I already said I love him!
    • I’m pretty sure.
    • I don’t know anymore…
    • No….
  • Question of

    Whenever you finish a conversation with him do you feel worse coming out of it then you did before you had it?

    • Yes! He says really mean things to me…
    • I don’t know I’m just a kinda “meh” person.
    • Yes. But it’s nothing that’s bad.
    • No! Talking to him puts me in a better mood!
  • Question of

    How do you think he would react if you broke up with him?

    • He’d be mad at me and end up dating someone within a week.
    • He wouldn’t let me leave…
    • He’d be so heartbroken.
    • I don’t know cause id never break up with him.
  • Question of

    What does he do when he gets mad at you? (TW, question 4)?

    • Nothing really happens. We rarely fight or get mad at each-other
    • He yells at me till I’m drained of energy
    • He never gets mad at me?
    • He physically hurts me in some way.
  • Question of

    Does he love you?

    • Of course he does!
    • I don’t know anymore…
    • I don’t think he does anymore but I can’t leave him…
    • It seems like he does
  • Question of

    Has he ever scared you?

    • Yes, but only as like a joking way
    • Yes… he does it often. I’m scared for what may happen if he gets anymore mad at me
    • Yes, he apologized after it was only meant to be a joke.
    • Yes, but he never apologized…
  • Question of

    What does he get mad at you for?

    • The tiniest of things it can get really irritating at times.
    • Somethings but that’s normal in a relationship
    • Pretty much everything. I’m scared to even breathe at this point.
    • Nothing. We never fight.
  • Question of

    Do you want to have a relationship with him?

    • Yes I do.
    • No but he won’t let me leave/ no but I don’t know how too
    • Of course I do! I love him!
    • I don’t know at this point.
  • Question of

    Why did you take this test?

    • Just checking
    • I don’t know what to do anymore I really am scared for what’s going on between us right now…
    • Things with him have been a little toxic lately
    • I was bored lol
  • Question of

    What’s the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning?

    • I wish I could go back to sleep.
    • It depends on the day.
    • I check my phone and social media.
    • My boo!
  • Question of

    Have you ever been stood up by your SO?

    • All the time!
    • Maybe once or twice
    • I may have stood them up before.
    • Of course not
  • Question of

    How often do you two text each other during the day?

    • Never
    • Once in a while
    • Too often
    • Whenever we feel like chatting
  • Question of

    How hard is it to agree on where to go for dinner?

    • We don’t really like the same food, so it’s never easy.
    • Not too hard, but you never know!
    • Sometimes it’s a chore.
    • We love all the same stuff, so it’s not super hard.
  • Question of

    Do you like to have people over for parties?

    • Not really my scene
    • Sometimes, sure!
    • I’d rather go out for that.
    • Love it!
  • Question of

    Does your family like your partner?

    • Not at all
    • More or less
    • I’d guess they think my SO is just OK.
    • Maybe even more than I do …
  • Question of

    Have you ever broken up with each other before?

    • A few times
    • No, but I’ve thought about it.
    • Once
    • Never
  • Question of

    Where would the two of you most likely go on vacation together?

    • Meh, doesn’t matter
    • An island, maybe
    • Las Vegas
    • Disney World
  • Question of

    What’s your opinion on couples costumes?

    • Yeah, no.
    • Not for me, I don’t think.
    • I’ve seen some cool ones.
    • I love them!
  • Question of

    When’s the last time your partner did something super sweet out of the blue for you?

    • I can’t even remember.
    • Maybe a week or so ago
    • It’s been a little while.
    • Earlier today!
  • Question of

    Do you guys do a lot of activities together in the house like cooking and cleaning?

    • I do all of that stuff.
    • They do most of it.
    • Sometimes
    • Yes, we work well together.
  • Question of

    Have you dropped the ‘L’ word on each other yet?

    • Not for a while
    • Well, one of us did.
    • Not yet
    • So many times!
  • Question of

    Do you ever just go on a walk together for no reason?

    • Not that I can recall
    • Sometimes!
    • Once in a blue moon
    • All the time
  • Question of

    Without asking, do you know your SO’s favorite meal?

    • Yeah, but I don’t like it.
    • I can’t recall.
    • Um. I think so.
    • Of course!
  • Question of

    Your partner knows your birthday, right?

    • Good question
    • As far as I know
    • They forget sometimes.
    • Obviously
  • Question of

    Are your musical tastes on the same page or do you dance to different beats?

    • We like different stuff.
    • Our tastes line up well.
    • Some of it meshes.
    • Heck yeah, we love all the same stuff.
  • Question of

    Do the two of you like one anothers’ friends?

    • Ugh. No.
    • Most of them
    • I like some more than others.
    • We have all the same friends.
  • Question of

    Has a good friend ever told you that your partner is a straight-up dud?

    • They used harsher words.
    • Not really
    • Heh. But also no.
    • Not a chance!
  • Question of

    Is jealousy an issue in your relationship?

    • Constantly
    • Maybe a smidge
    • Just from one of us, but not often.
    • Never
  • Question of

    Do you guys ever have date nights?

    • We do stuff almost every night.
    • Not really
    • Yeah, on weekends.
    • We try to schedule stuff when we can.

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