Should You Ask Him Out?


“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“Have you ever noticed how parents can go from the most wonderful people in the world to totally embarrassing in three seconds?”
Rick Riordan,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you like his friends?

    • I don’t really know
    • No, they’re jerks
    • Yes, we’re in the same friend group
    • They’re great!
  • Question of

    Do you ever catch him looking at you?

    • I haven’t noticed
    • Yeah, and he keeps staring at me when I meet his gaze
    • Yeah, and when I look back he smiles
    • Not really
    • Yeah, but he looks away
  • Question of

    Was this helpful? (does not count for points)

    • No this is bu11$H!7
    • I’m just trying to get this over with
    • No
    • Yes, I can’t wait to see my score!
    • I think so
  • Question of

    Do you talk?

    • I don’t see him that often
    • YES, all the time!
    • Kind of
  • Question of

    Are you guys friends?

    • I think so?
    • We’re friends
    • I don’t really know
    • No, we’ve never interacted
    • Yes, we’re best friends!
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1 to 5, how much do you like him?

    • 3
    • 1
    • 4
    • 2
    • 5
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes you?

    • I have no clue, that’s why I’m taking this quiz
    • His friends told me does
    • Maybe
    • I think so/my friends think so
    • Yes, he told me he does
  • Question of

    Do you text?

    • He doesn’t/I don’t have text
    • He never responds:(
    • We text maybe once a month or every 2 months
    • I don’t have his number
    • We text ALL THE TIME
  • Question of

    Do you feel safe and comfortable with him?

    • Yes, he makes me feel so safe and comforts me
    • I don’t know, we’re not around each other a lot
    • Not particularly
    • Maybe, I haven’t noticed
  • Question of

    Can you be yourself around him?

    • I think so
    • No
    • No clue
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Do you hang out?

    • He’s always busy
    • Once
    • He rejects my invitations:(
    • Not really, I don’t know him that well
    • Yes, at least once a week
  • Question of

    Do you have a lot in common?

    • I don’t know
    • I think so
    • Yes
    • I don’t know him that well
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he have a girlfriend?

    • Ugh, yes
    • Yeah….. he’s dating my friend
    • Nope, single and ready to mingle!
    • No, he just got out of a relationship
    • No but I think he might be gay
  • Question of

    Is he attractive?

    • Yes, but his personality is better
    • DUH, that’s why I like him!
    • No, personality is more important
    • Yes, and he’s also a great person!
  • Question of

    Do you smile when you’re around him?

    • I haven’t noticed
    • No
    • Hell yeah! I can’t stop grinning when I see him!
    • Yes, but I try to keep it discreet
    • Yeah, we smile at each other
  • Question of

    Does he make you happy?

    • No
    • Yeah
    • Kind of
    • Not really
    • YES
  • Question of

    Have you dated before?

    • Yeah, but it was when we were 4. Does that count?
    • Yeah, but it wasn’t working
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you feel confident around him?

    • No, I feel like I’m going to melt
    • Not really
    • YEAH
  • Question of

    Does he make you laugh?

    • I’m not around him that often
    • Mostly
    • No
    • Yes, I can’t stop cracking up!
  • Question of

    Does he make eye contact when you guys talk?

    • Yes, he seems very engaged
    • No, he looks anywhere but me
    • He looks at the floor
    • We don’t really talk

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