Should you ask him out? Girls quiz


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you guys ever make eye contact?

    • Yeah he smiles/blushes/waves;)
    • No he probably does not know I’m alive
    • Yup all the time:)
    • Yea but he likes all the girls he is such a player!
    • Sometimes if class gets boring
  • Question of

    Do you guys talk?

    • A little:)
    • Sometimes just basic stuff though
    • Of course he is such a nice guy!
    • We are always flirting!
    • No not really I don’t think he knows my name
  • Question of

    Have his friends ever told you that he likes you?

    • Yeah I’m like best friends with them!
    • They are all so hot too *sighs* But no they haven’t
    • No they won’t talk to me either
    • They hint at it I have hope!
    • Yeah but they said to not take it too seriously
  • Question of

    Do you love him?

    • I guess
    • Sort of but there are a lot of cute guys out there
    • I have the biggest sweetest crush on him!
    • Yes I wish he knew though
    • Yes I love him a lot:)
  • Question of

    Has he ever said that he likes you?

    • Nope
    • Yes but by text:)
    • He has hinted at it
    • No:(
    • Yeah then he hugged me!
  • Question of

    Do you have his contact info?

    • Yes I’m like his stalker but I’m not brave enough to call him
    • No I want to though
    • He just sent me a cute text!
    • Yes we text/email and talk on the phone all the time..maybe a little too much!
    • Yes I find it important to have all of the cute guys contact info
  • Question of

    Do his friends act weird around you?

    • I like them too:)
    • We are friends so no
    • Yes they are always poking him and smiling!
    • We don’t talk
    • They dude me like I’m one of the guys!
  • Question of

    Does he try to act cool around you? (dance around, try to act cool, and raise his hand and be smart)

    • Yes all of it! He really tries to impress me
    • No just raises his hand like a normal person
    • Sometimes
    • No but he is still cute
    • Yeah he dances around
  • Question of

    Has he ever touched you?

    • Not that I know of
    • Yeah we kissed: D
    • No I want him to though
    • Once we brushed shoulders in the hall
    • Yes we have hugged and held hands I had to get him to though not that he minded
  • Question of

    Would you rather go on a date with your crush or hang with a friend?

    • Crush I guess
    • Crush!
    • The friend who needs him
    • Crush DUH
    • Both!
  • Question of

    Did you like this quiz?

    • It was okay
    • Nah it was boring
    • Yeah! I love my crush
    • Yes!
    • Um sure..?
  • Question of

    What’s your ideal first date?

    • Coffee or some other setting where we can get to know one another.
    • Something special that they planned with me in mind.
    • Hot air balloons. And concerts. Maybe a road trip.
    • Classic dinner and a movie are fine.
  • Question of

    What would you say is your best quality?

    • I’m a great relationship-builder.
    • I care deeply about others.
    • I’m excited about life.
    • I’m logical and great at planning.
  • Question of

    Which trait is most important to you in a partner?

    • Willingness to put in effort
    • Thoughtfulness
    • A sense of adventure
    • Rational decision-making
  • Question of

    It’s time to meet your partner’s family for the first time. How are you feeling?

    • I’m nervous; it’s important to me that we have a good relationship.
    • I’m okay; I’d do anything for my partner.
    • I’m good! I love meeting new people.
    • I’m okay. We’ve been planning this for a while so I could brace myself.
  • Question of

    Which physical aspect is most attractive to you in a partner?

    • Arms
    • Eyes
    • Smile
    • Shoulders
  • Question of

    How do you want to spend your first anniversary with your partner?

    • Going back and repeating our first date
    • It doesn’t matter, as long as they’ve planned something thoughtful.
    • On a new, crazy adventure!
    • A quiet, classic celebration together is fine.
  • Question of

    How do you feel about marriage?

    • Great, as long as we have a great connection.
    • Good, as long as the people in our lives approve.
    • It depends on the day.
    • If we’d been together for a long time and weighed our options, I’d be open to it.
  • Question of

    Your partner brings home a small surprise at the end of the day; you love it. What’s the surprise?

    • Flowers
    • Wine
    • A dog
    • Chocolates
  • Question of

    Your partner asks what you feel like doing this weekend. What’s your answer?

    • We should go on a hike and spend time alone together.
    • Let’s spend our time volunteering.
    • Let’s go skydiving. Or fly cross-country.
    • A nice weekend on the couch sounds good.

Should I Ask HIM Out?

Should I ask him if he likes me (For middle school girls)