Should you be together? ( High school / Teenager )


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Rubaiyat

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, The Bridges

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, New Order

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Have you ever taken a class together?

    • No, I have no idea what we would do together.
    • No, but that sounds fun.
    • Yes, we took a physical class together, like dance or exercise.
    • Yes, we learned how to do something together, like painting or cooking.
  • Question of

    Do you watch the same shows on TV?

    • No, not even close.
    • I am not even sure.
    • Mostly
    • Totally
  • Question of

    Have you stayed up together all night talking?

    • No, how would that even happen?
    • No, but we like to talk.
    • Pretty close.
    • Yes, we have.
  • Question of

    Have you stayed up all night partying?

    • Not together
    • No, we don’t roll like that.
    • Yes, and it got ugly near the end.
    • Yes, it was so fun.
  • Question of

    Have you ever done it three times in one day?

    • Are you joking?
    • That sounds a little ambitious.
    • No, but we did it twice!
    • Yes, it was great.
  • Question of

    Have you ever been in a big fight?

    • Yeah, we didn’t speak to each other for days.
    • Yes, it was awful
    • No, not really
    • Yes, but it was good for us in the long run.
  • Question of

    Do you two talk a lot?

    • I try, but every time I freeze up
    • Not really
    • We talk sometimes
    • Every second we’re together we’re chatting
    • We’ve never talked
  • Question of

    Do you have a lot in common?

    • Some, I guess
    • Nothing
    • I don’t know really, we just met/haven’t talked
    • Everything
    • A little
  • Question of

    Do you text each other?

    • Yeah, a lot
    • Occasionally
    • Yes, all the time!
    • Never
    • I don’t have her number
  • Question of

    Does their family like you?

    • They hate me
    • Not really
    • I haven’t met their family
    • Yes, they seem to really like me
    • Sort of, I don’t know
  • Question of

    What’s your favorite thing about her?

    • Their interests
    • Their personality
    • Their looks
    • Their body
    • Their sense of humor
  • Question of

    How often do you thing of them?

    • Sometimes
    • A lot
    • Every minute of every hour of every day
    • When I see them
    • Never
  • Question of

    You just found out their moving far away, how do you feel?

    • I’ll miss them, but we can text/call
    • I’ll miss them I guess
    • As if your heart was crushed to a thousand pieces
    • Good riddance
  • Question of

    Your see them sobbing uncontrollably, what do you do?

    • Ask her whats wrong and tell them your there for them whenever they need it
    • Run up to them to do everything you can to make them feel better. It absolutely destroys you to see them like this
    • Ask whats wrong but not get too involved
    • Laugh
    • Feel bad, but you don’t want to embarrass yourself in front of other people, so you do nothing
  • Question of

    Have they told you they like you?

    • Yes, and we’re dating!
    • A while ago, but I didn’t make anything of it
    • Yes, but I declined
    • No, but I think she does
    • No, she hasn’t said anything
  • Question of

    How long have you know each other?

    • We’ve never met
    • A couple years
    • A year
    • As long as I can remember
    • A month
  • Question of

    Have you taken a long trip together?

    • We have never taken a trip.
    • We have taken short ones.
    • Yes, it went OK.
    • Yes, it went great.
  • Question of

    Have you had a talk about values?

    • No, we don’t need to.
    • Yes, and it didn’t go that great.
    • Yes, and they’re different.
    • Yes, we have the same values.
  • Question of

    Do you guys usually split the cost when you go out?

    • No, I always pay.
    • The other person always pays.
    • Pretty much.
    • Whoever has more money at the time pays.
  • Question of

    Have you ever watched someone’s pet together?

    • Not together, no.
    • Yes, but I did most of the watching.
    • Yes, it was super fun.
    • No, neither one of us likes animals.

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