Should You Kiss Your Crush? (GIRLS ONLY!)


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    When He Walks Passed You, What Does He Usually Do To You?

    • He Just Looks At Me But Does Nothing
    • He Doesn’t Even Do Anything! He doesn’t Even Look At Me!
    • He Just Smiles And Maybe Gives A Little Wave Sometimes
    • He Comes Up To Me And Starts Talking To Me
    • He Comes Up Really Close To Me And Maybe Touches Me ‘By Accident’
  • Question of

    Does He Already Have A Girlfriend?

    • No, But He Does Have His Eye On Another Girl But Not Me
    • Yes! And They Love Each-other!
    • I Don’t Know!
    • Yes, But They Don’t Really Like Or See Each-other
  • Question of

    Do You Hang Out Together?

    • Yes! All The Time!
    • Sometimes But It’s Always With Other People And Not By Ourselves
    • Yes, But It’s Very Rare And We Only Go On Walks
    • No, Not At All!
    • We Used To But Now We Don’t
  • Question of

    When You Do Hang Out With Him, Does He Get Closer and Closer To You?

    • Yes, All The Time!
    • We Don’t Even Hang Out!
    • He Sometimes Gets Closer To Me
    • I Have Never Really Paid Attention To That When We Are Hanging Out
    • He Tries To Keep A Distance When We Are Hanging Out
  • Question of

    When You Are Talking To Him, What Does He Focus On The Most?

    • We Don’t Talk
    • He Usually Looks At What I’m Wearing
    • He Never Focuses On Me. He Usually Focuses On The Surroundings
    • My Eyes
    • My Lips
  • Question of

    Have You Ever Kissed Him In The Past?

    • He Tried To Kiss Me But I Backed Away
    • I Tried To Kiss Him But He Backed Away And Told Me He Didn’t Want To
    • No. And I Have Never Tried
    • Yes, But It Was Only A Little Friendly Peck
  • Question of

    Does He Always Try To Look His Best When He Is Around You?

    • No. Every time I See Him He Is Always Wearing His Usual Clothes
    • I Have Never Really Noticed
    • Yes. All The Time!
    • He Does Make Sure That His Hair Looks Nice But That’s All
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    When He Is Talking With Other Girls And Then Notices That Your Watching Them, What Does He Do?

    • He Laughs With Them And Then Looks At Me
    • He Doesn’t Even See Me
    • He Carries On Talking With Them Even Though He Knows That I’m There
    • He Runs Up To Me And Asks If I Want To Join In
    • He Says Goodbye To The Girls Then Comes Up To Me
  • Question of

    If You Dropped All Of Your Things On The Floor, What Does He Do?

    • He Does Nothing. He Will Just Walk Passed Me
    • He Helps Me And Then He Puts His Hand On Top Of Mine And Says That It Was An Accident
    • He Comes And Helps Me To Pick Them All Up
    • He Laughs At Me Then Walks Passed Me
    • He Asks If I Need Help
  • Question of

    LAST QUESTION: How Badly Do You Want To Kiss Him?

    • I Don’t Really Want To Kiss Him But I’m Sure It Wont Be That Bad
    • I Do Want To Kiss Him But I’m Not That Desperate
    • Yes! Of Course!
  • Question of

    Do you like or love them?

    • its love
    • i just like him/her
    • both
    • idk
  • Question of

    Have you hugged?

    • yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he/she like you?

    • yes
    • No
    • maybe
  • Question of

    Do you like the same things?

    • yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Is she/he in a relationship?

    • yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Dose he/she talk to you all the time?

    • yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you guys hangout?

    • yes
    • No
    • sometimes
  • Question of

    Do you feel happy around her/him?

    • yes
    • No

Should you kiss them first?

Should you kiss him/her?