Emily - Question of
Do you love your partner no matter what?
- Yes, always
- Ha, no
- It depends on the situation
- Question of
When you two have an argument, how does it usually turn out?
- We both talk it out and come to a compromise
- Sometimes talk it out, sometimes never solve it.
- We argue about it a week later
- Question of
Do you both have the same values in life?
- Yes.
- Some things yes, and if we do not they respect me for that
- Some things yes and if we do not, I have to change always
- No, not a single thing.
- Question of
Do you ever like other people and wish to be with them?
- Never. I love my partner that much
- Sometimes, but I would never cheat
- Sometimes, I have considered cheating
- Only all the time! We argue way too much
- Question of
Do you have any children together or do you want any?
- We have a child together/ want the same amount of children
- We do not have a child/not sure if they want one or not
- My partner wants children, I do not or vice Versa
- Question of
Have you discussed marriage before?
- We are actually engaged and have a few dates chosen
- We have discussed it, but are not ready financially/emotionally yet
- We have not discussed anything yet
- He/she says they are not ready
- Question of
Do you live together?
- Yes, and we get along great
- Yes, but we barely tolerate each other
- No, but we stay the night and I miss them when they leave
- Nope. We do not even spend the night together
- Question of
Does their family like you?
- They all love me but there’s always that one person
- Most of them do, a few do not
- All of them hate me
- Question of
What’s one thing you cannot stand about your partner?
- They always concerned about me when I am fine
- They watch shows that I cannot stand
- They like to lie to my face when I know the truth
- Question of
Lastly, are YOU ready to get married to them?
- Yes. For sure
- Yes, but we are not quite financially ready yet
- Sort of. We have to work on our relationship
- No. I need to move on
- Question of
Who does your significant other call first when they need advice?
- They should call their mother.
- They should call their father.
- They should call their brother.
- They should call their best friend.
- Question of
Do your friends like them?
- They are so happy that this person is in my life.
- They get along really well.
- They put up with my partner.
- They don’t really care for this person.
- Question of
Have you talked about what kind of house you want to buy in the future?
- Yes, we have.
- We’ve lightly discussed it.
- We’ve talked about where we like to live.
- No, we haven’t.
- Question of
Do you have any important secrets you haven’t shared with this person?
- No, we are very open with our communication and our lives.
- We’ve discussed feelings that I haven’t known how to express yet.
- We’ve discussed a few things that haven’t come up before.
- I’ve kept a lot of my past from this person.
- Question of
What kind of decisions have you consulted your partner on?
- I discuss looking outside of our area for my career.
- I got their opinion on buying furniture.
- We’ve discussed whether or not I should keep someone as a friend.
- We’ve discussed splitting a plate of nachos.
- Question of
How was your extended trip with your lover?
- It was a truly amazing experience, and I loved that they were my perfect travel buddy.
- It was a lot of fun, and we didn’t get too tired of each other.
- We’ve been on a few short trips that were great.
- We haven’t gone on a trip together yet.
- Question of
How often do you spend your spare time by yourself?
- I have time to myself at least every other day.
- I have time to myself at maybe once a week.
- Every day I’m hanging out with myself.
- Most of my spare time is alone.
- Question of
When you are traveling on your own, how often do you talk to them?
- I usually video chat with them every night to tell them about my day.
- I call or text them almost every day.
- I text them all day the whole time.
- I talk to them once or twice while I’m gone.
- Question of
If you are feeling lonely, what do you do?
- I ask my partner if they can spend time with me.
- I call or visit my romantic partner.
- I hang out with my friends.
- I browse dating profiles.
- Question of
What is your favorite dinner date with them?
- We love cooking together.
- We love trying new takeout places.
- My favorite date so far has been at this really fancy restaurant.
- I love going out for wings and fries at our local bar.
- Question of
How often do you laugh heartily around them?
- I laugh at their silliness constantly.
- I laugh at their silliness almost every day.
- I laugh at their silliness once a week.
- I don’t remember the last time I laughed with my partner.
- Question of
Do you guys apologize to each other?
- Yes, we are good at owning up to our mistakes.
- We apologize to each other only after big fights.
- Usually, we just get the other person a treat to apologize.
- What would we have to apologize for?
- Question of
What would you do if your partner felt that you didn’t give them enough attention?
- I’d ask them how they felt I could improve.
- I’d make an effort to spend more time with them for the next few weeks.
- I’d give them more of my attention then.
- I’d tell them they are being clingy.
- Question of
How often do you go on dates?
- We make time for each other everyday.
- We go out at least once a week.
- We go out a few times a month.
- We go out once a month.
- Question of
What would you do if your partner got their dream job in a different state?
- I’d look at ways to achieve my dreams there.
- I’d figure out how to do a long distance relationship with them.
- I’d ask them to consider other jobs in our current state.
- I’d be excited for them, but I’d also break up with them.
- Question of
If your date were in an accident, how would you respond?
- I’d get there immediately to make sure they are okay and help them with phone calls and family.
- I’d be on the phone for support and ask them what I could do to help.
- I’d make sure they were okay and let them handle things.
- I’d help them if they asked for help.
- Question of
Do you and your partner do everything together?
- Definitely not, although I’m always happy to hear about their hobbies.
- We have a lot of shared hobbies, so we do most things together.
- We are together all the time.
- We only do things together occasionally.
- Question of
What is the biggest item you have purchased together?
- We bought a bookshelf together.
- We got a cat together.
- We bought antiques together.
- We bought a giant stuffed animal together.
- Question of
How far ahead in your future have you guys discussed?
- We’ve discussed plans at least ten years into the future?
- We’ve discussed events up to two years away.
- We have planned things for six months in the future.
- We have planned things a month in the future.
- Question of
How frequently do you ask your partner if they still like you?
- Sometimes, when I’m mostly feeling down.
- I don’t go looking for assurance from anyone.
- Once in a while, I’ll ask them if they still care about me.
- I ask for reassurance constantly.
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