We Bet We Can Guess Your Astrology Element Based On Your Taste In Men

 

 

From my first week of college, my first party at a fraternity house, my first discussions with American friends, I realized that this is no longer the European, classy, old school world of romance, in which boys show effort to buy girls flowers, send good morning messages, or take the time to really get to know each other, deeper than the surface level of the all-positive and all-flawless.

Here, I’m probably facing the most individualistic culture on Earth, with its main values being Uniqueness, Independence, Self-Sufficiency and Autonomy. Don’t get me wrong, I share these values as well and they help me going in my career, that’s why I love the fact that I spend my twenties in the American culture, but the moment they translate into the way relationships are perceived, you are left with an emotionless-no-commitment-hookup type of culture.

For a hopeless romantic, or a person who’s been raised around loving relationships, this is a special kind of hell. Not only you experience a clash in your world views, but then you are faced with the need to make a choice: do I conform to the way things are done here or do I keep my values and keep longing for that real and authentic connection?

The worst thing you can do is to dive in their ways of doing things with your old way of viewing love. That’s the major clash. Been there, done that.

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Therefore, I just wanted to mention a few points about modern love. For that, I will also share some quotes from the book I am currently reading, Women Who Run With the Wolves. The book’s aim is to help women find their powerful, creative and instinctual nature that we often hide because of social norms, rules, and cultural forces.

“Lots of people like rainbows. Children make wishes on them, artists paint them, dreamers chase them, but the Aquarian is ahead of everybody. He lives on one. What’s more, he’s taken it apart and examined it, piece by piece, color by color, and he still believes in it. It isn’t easy to believe in something after you know what it’s really like, but the Aquarian is essentially a realist, even though his address is tomorrow, with a wild-blue-yonder zip code.”
― Linda Goodman, Linda Goodman’s Sun Signs

“Astrology is assured of recognition from psychology, without further restrictions, because astrology represents the summation of all the psychological knowledge of antiquity.”
― C.G. Jung

“The good news is that she is one of the nicest people in the universe. The bad news is, that’s because she always does exactly what she pleases. An Aquarius female is rebellious, headstrong, and contrary. She can be selfishly independent and exasperating, especially when she is running through the house screaming, “freedom!”
― Hazel Dixon-Cooper, Born on a Rotten Day: Illuminating and Coping with the Dark Side of the Zodiac

“On the one hand, you have a wonderfully caring, magnetic personality that draw people in close. On the other hand, you come across as standoffish, even reclusive. While both personalities are, in fact, who you are, at any one moment which side you show to the world depends on who you are with and the circumstances you are in.”
― Rosemary Breen


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  • Question of

    Which of these stand-up comedians just ‘does it’ for you?

    • Ricky Gervais
    • Trevor Noah
    • John Mulaney
    • Hannibal Buress
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    What about these 90s sitcom stars-turned-silver foxes?

    • Eric McCormack
    • John Stamos
    • Matt LeBlanc
    • Will Smith
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    What about these male figure skaters?

    • Johnny Weir
    • Adam Ripon
    • Brian Boitano
    • Evengi Plushenko
  • Question of

    Pick a Marvel star to rescue you:

    • Chris Evans
    • Mark Ruffalo
    • Chris Hemsworth
    • Michael B. Jordan
  • Question of

    Which Beatle was always the hottest to you?

    • John Lennon
    • Paul McCartney
    • George Harrison
    • Ringo Starr
  • Question of

    What about these rap stars?

    • Drake
    • Kendrick Lamar
    • Meek Mill
    • Travis Scott
  • Question of

    What about these Hollywood leading men?

    • Brad Pitt
    • Leonardo DiCaprio
    • George Clooney
    • Idris Elba
  • Question of

    Now pick the hottest Zac Efron:

    • 17 Again
    • High School Musical
    • The Greatest Showman
    • Baywatch
  • Question of

    And a musical theater star:

    • Lin Manuel Miranda
    • Aaron Tveit
    • Jeremy Jordan
    • Ben Platt
  • Question of

    And finally, the hottest teen actor:

    • Noah Schnapp
    • Finn Wolfhard
    • Ty Simpkins
    • Wyatt Oleff
  • Question of

    Exotic men are…

    • My favorite
    • Pretty sexy
    • Something to try while on vacation
    • Something to try once in a lifetime
    • Not for me
  • Question of

    What do you think about men with thin lips?

    • SEXY
    • NOT SURE
    • HATE IT
    • DON’T CARE
  • Question of

    A smooth/shaved chest is…

    • Arousing
    • Disgusting
    • It depends
  • Question of

    This chest is…

    • A perfect 10
    • It’s OK…
    • I don’t like it
  • Question of

    Long hair is SEXY…

    • Strongly agree
    • Agree
    • Neither disagree nor agree
    • Disagree
    • Strongly disagree
    • Who cares? Look at those eyes!

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