What % Compatible Are You and Your Boo?

 

Romantic relationships are usually the next step from a friendship. When you come into a relationship it is necessary to keep that spark alive, to be adventurous and fun. But it also means there should be mutual respect and equality. While it is true that relationship compatibility makes a relationship stronger, it is also true that a couple doesn’t have to have every interest in common.

Well the ancient concept of a “soul mate” still exists and is quite popular. The idea that there is one perfect person for us out there, who will find all our flaws as our unique aspects is way too pretentious. This belief does nothing but makes us sabotage and doubt potential relationships and partners, because they don’t match the image we have in our mind.

Often we find that potential partner and let go if it because of different interests and needs, but what we forget is that is not how life works. We can’t find someone with exactly the same interests as ours’ and it is also necessary a friendship as a support to the relationship.

Ups and downs are what we sign for when we get into a relationship, not everything will be perfect. There are many potential partners, it is necessary for us to keep our bias aside and see with whom we click and can work things out if they get difficult.

“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
― Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
― Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
― John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
― Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
― Mary Manin Morrissey


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How long have you and your boo been dating?

    • Over 3 years
    • Between 1-3 years
    • Between 6 months and 1 year
    • Less than 6 months
  • Question of

    Have you two said “I love you” to each other?

    • Yes, we both have.
    • I did, but they haven’t yet.
    • They did, but I haven’t yet.
    • Nope
  • Question of

    How many times during the week do you see your boo?

    • Almost every day
    • A few days a week
    • It’s more like a few days a month.
    • It’s more like a few times a year.
  • Question of

    What’s your preferred method of communication with your boo?

    • Face-to-face conversations
    • Calling each other on the phone.
    • Texting each other
    • Sending emails to each other.
  • Question of

    Do you and your boo have similar hobbies and interests?

    • Absolutely
    • For the most part, yes
    • It depends on the hobby.
    • No, not really
  • Question of

    How do you two handle a fight or argument?

    • We never fight or argue.
    • We handle this in a polite way.
    • One of us usually argues their point and wins.
    • We’re still figuring this out.
  • Question of

    Do you two ever get jealous of each other?

    • Nope, never
    • Not too often
    • It depends on the situation.
    • Yes, all the time
  • Question of

    Who handles the financial matters in the relationship?

    • We both do.
    • I do.
    • They do.
    • Neither one of us does.
  • Question of

    Would you say that you and your boo have similar personality traits?

    • Absolutely
    • We have many similar personality traits.
    • We have a few similar personality traits.
    • No, we’re completely different.
  • Question of

    Is your boo the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?

    • Yes, without a doubt
    • I think so.
    • I’m not really sure.
    • No, I don’t think so.
  • Question of

    Have you met your boo’s friends and family members yet?

    • Yes, and they’re all wonderful.
    • Yes, but I only like a few of them.
    • Yes, but I don’t like any of them.
    • Nope, not yet.
  • Question of

    Who does all the cooking in the relationship?

    • We both take turns.
    • I do most of the cooking.
    • My boo does most of the cooking.
    • Neither one of us, that’s what takeout is for.
  • Question of

    When it comes to political matters, do you and your boo share the same views?

    • Yes, absolutely
    • We agree on most political things.
    • No, but we still respect each other.
    • No, and we tend to argue over this.
  • Question of

    What do you love the most about your boo?

    • Their kindness
    • Their humor
    • Their determination
    • Their good looks
  • Question of

    If you could take your boo on a date right now, where would you take them?

    • Somewhere adventurous, like a camping trip
    • To a fancy restaurant
    • To a movie theater
    • To a shopping mall

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