“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon
“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack
“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out
“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat
“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience
“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project
“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves
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Marty McConnell Mythology
“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges
“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, Eleanor & Park
“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember
“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon
“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife
“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska
“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order
“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, The Lover’s Dictionary
“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.
- Question of
What would you prefer your guy to look like?
- Light Brown hair and hazel eyes
- Very short black hair and dark brown eyes
- Dirty blond hair and a mix of green/blue eyes
- Dark Brown hair and brown eyes
- Question of
Wear would you like to go if you could?
- Arezzo, Tuscany, Italy
- Garland, Texas, USA
- Atlanta, Georgia, USA
- Fort Pierce, Florida, USA
- Question of
What date is your birthday closest to?
- August 28th
- July 9th
- April 23rd
- August 4th
- Question of
What do you look for most in guys?
- Someone kind and caring
- Good looks (HOT!)
- Someone musically talented
- Someone who can make me laugh
- Question of
What is your favorite show on family channel?
- Zoey 101
- Cory in the house
- Suite Life of Zack and Cody
- Hannah Montana
- Question of
Around How tall are you?
- 5′ 5 1/2′
- 5′ 8′
- 5′ 7 1/2′
- 5′ 3′
- Question of
How would your boyfriend spend his 18th birthday?
- Sleeping
- Have a one on one day with you
- Have a cool concert and invite all his friends
- Throws a huge party and invite everyone he knows even if he only has known them for less then 24 hours
- Question of
Favorite Colour?
- Blue
- Yellow
- Green
- Red
- Question of
Favorite Singer?
- Maiara Walsh
- Hannah Montana
- Britney Spears
- Ashley Tisdale
- Question of
Last question?
- Great!
- So soon
- What?
- That’s nice cool dude
- Question of
Which of these words describes your love life?
- It’s nonexistent.
- It’s great.
- It’s not the best.
- It could be better.
- Question of
What is your favorite animated Disney movie?
- ‘Beauty and the Beast.’
- ‘Frozen.’
- ‘The Little Mermaid.’
- ‘The Lion King.’
- Question of
Which of these live action films did you enjoy watching?
- ‘Cinderella.’
- ‘The Jungle Book.’
- ‘Christopher Robin.’
- ‘Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Men Tell No Tales.’
- Question of
Which Disney song would you play at your wedding?
- ‘Something’s There.’
- ‘Can You Feel the Love Tonight.’
- ‘Kiss the Girl.’
- ‘A Whole New World.’
- Question of
Which sidekick would be your wingman?
- Abu and the magic carpet
- Meeko and Flit
- Lumiere and Cogsworth
- Timon and Pumbaa
- Question of
Which of these villains will you and your sidekick take down together?
- Ursula
- Prince Hans
- Dr. Facilier
- Jafar
- Question of
Are you a hopeless romantic?
- No.
- Yes.
- I can be.
- I’m a closet hopeless romantic.
- Question of
What is your usual type?
- The athletic type
- The quiet and sensitive type
- The funny type
- I don’t have a type.
- Question of
Which of these traits do you like in a guy?
- Creativity
- Kindness
- Charisma
- Humor
- Question of
Your partner needs to be ___________.
- Confident
- Intelligent
- Good-looking
- Fashionable
- Question of
You’re hoping that your partner isn’t secretly ________.
- Talkative
- Messy
- A mama’s boy
- Bad in bed
- Question of
Which of these is a dealbreaker?
- Neediness
- Lack of ambition
- Laziness
- No sense of humor
- Question of
Which of these body types are you most attracted to?
- Muscular
- Chubby
- Lean
- It doesn’t matter to me
- Question of
Which of these features do you like most?
- Ripped muscles
- Bright eyes
- Very tall
- A nice smile
- Question of
How do you feel about facial hair?
- I love it.
- Once it’s well-groomed, we’re good.
- I don’t mind a little hair.
- No thank you.
- Question of
What should be your partner’s biggest priority?
- Me
- His job
- Bettering himself
- His family
- Question of
Which of these romantic gestures will sweep you off your feet?
- Giving me a massage
- Cooking for me
- Sending me sweet notes
- Holding my hand when walking around
- Question of
How do you feel about having children?
- Not right now.
- I already have one.
- I don’t know.
- I would love to have kids.
- Question of
Your last relationship ended because…
- I was cheated on.
- We wanted different things.
- I was not happy.
- I still don’t know.
- Question of
How many significant others have you had?
- Less than 10
- Less than 5
- I’ve had to kiss a few frogs.
- I don’t keep count.