What Do Guys First Notice About You?

 

Relationships like the ones in the novellas indeed requires a miracle. But what is this miracle exactly? It is nothing but efforts that two people who are in love with each other put in the relationship to make it work. If we are in a relationship, there is a constant thought that is at the back of our mind, and we wanna know whether we are where we are destined to be, with whom we are destined to be with. And finding out the answer to that isn’t that difficult, all we need to do is know what we are looking for.

If you want this relationship to be “the one” and you to be the endgame, just ask yourself some of these important questions: have you and your partner reached the right level of maturity to handle a serious commitment? Is your partnership healthy -emotionally and spiritually? Is what you have strong enough to survive the common obstacles that usually tear people apart? And here are the signs which you need to pay attention to in order to know whether you are in a mature, healthy and strong relationship:

  1. You are not worried about what the future will bring.

You are in a healthy and mature relationship when you don’t constantly worry about the future. You don’t think about things like whether or not you will be together after a year or whether things will change. Not thinking about these questions is a sign of you certainty that comes only by being in a mature and strong relationship. It also says that there is assurance of love in the relationship.

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
― Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed Devil

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
― Haruki Murakami, South of the Border, West of the Sun

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
― C. JoyBell C.

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
― Henry Rollins, The Portable Henry Rollins


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Are you the shy type?

    • Nope, I’m pretty outgoing.
    • It depends on who I’m around.
    • Yes, I’m quite shy.
    • I’m shy at first, but I open up quickly.
  • Question of

    How quickly can you adapt to new situations?

    • I’m not a fan of it, but I’ll do it if I have to.
    • Only if I’m moving to a new house – otherwise I can’t adapt well.
    • I’m like a chameleon with how quickly I can adapt.
    • I hate the idea of change.
  • Question of

    When you do your makeup, which of these features do you try to accentuate?

    • My eyes
    • My whole face!
    • My lips
    • My cheekbones
  • Question of

    Which of these traits can you relate to?

    • Kind
    • Confident
    • Spontaneous
    • Clever
  • Question of

    Are you good at solving puzzles?

    • I can solve some basic ones, but nothing too hard.
    • No, I can’t even solve 2+2+2.
    • I work better when I’m on a team of people.
    • Yes, that’s the best thing about me.
  • Question of

    Are you a gym rat?

    • Only before a big event
    • All day, every day!
    • One or two times a week
    • I never go to the gym.
  • Question of

    You see your crush at a party. Do you make the first move?

    • I’ll probably text him through a friend.
    • I’ll casually bump into him.
    • Of course. I’ll walk right up and talk to him!
    • No way. I’ll just hide somewhere.
  • Question of

    How spontaneous are you?

    • I just kind of follow what my friends do.
    • I’m occasionally spontaneous.
    • Very! I hate planning things.
    • Not at all – I like everything organized and planned out.
  • Question of

    What’s in your wardrobe?

    • I’m a mixed bag; I have everything.
    • Fancy clothes like dresses and cute tops
    • Preppy stuff like jeans and plaid shirts
    • T-shirts, sweats and hoodies
  • Question of

    Are you a leader or a follower?

    • It depends on who I’m around.
    • Follower
    • I can be both since I adapt really well.
    • Leader
  • Question of

    What is your hair color?

    • I change it sometimes.
    • Red
    • Blonde
    • Brown
  • Question of

    Do you think you’re well-groomed?

    • I’m kind of in the middle.
    • Yes, very much so!
    • I don’t wash my hair often, but I’m good with everything else.
    • Only when I have to go outside
  • Question of

    How do you normally wear your hair?

    • A bun
    • It’s always styled.
    • A ponytail
    • I just brush it and leave it down.
  • Question of

    You’ve just been assigned a bunch of school projects. How do you handle it?

    • I’ll do it when I feel like it.
    • I’ll procrastinate until the last day.
    • I’ll probably do it in a few days.
    • I’m pretty smart, so it’ll get done quickly.
  • Question of

    Which of these colors would you choose to paint your nails?

    • Red
    • Pink
    • Purple
    • Black
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