What does he think of you?

 

“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How much do you know about this guy?

    • His name…age… um….. that’s it.
    • I know he’s hot!
    • I know his address, phone number, weight, the path he walks to school, the middle names of all of his best friends…
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    When he sees you standing next to him, he…

    • scratches his head trying to remember who you are.
    • …runs. Very Fast.
    • Stares at you for a moment before whispering something to his friend.
  • Question of

    What was the first thing you ever said to him?

    • ‘Don’t you walk the same way to school as me? What year are you in?’ *While taking out a notepad*
    • ‘Hi, um… what’s your name?’
    • ‘Hey, hot stuff… What’s a pretty guy like you doing in a place like this?’
  • Question of

    When you see him, you…

    • wave before making a mental note of the time you saw him.
    • …wink and blow him a kiss.
    • ..go woozy at the knees.
  • Question of

    You spot him at your school dance and….

    • you wander around near where he’s standing, occasionally smiling at him in the hope he’ll ask you to dance.
    • you start doing your most provocative dancing with a friend in front of him.
    • you follow his every movement around the room, expertly ‘blending into the background’ every time he turns round.
  • Question of

    On Halloween night you…

    • ..shamelessly drag your friends around neighbourhood houses in the hope of finding his.
    • look like a call girl. You were aiming for Snow White but it didn’t turn out that way…
    • ..err…. trick or treat, isn’t that what everyone does?
  • Question of

    When he’s talking to his friends, you presume he’s…

    • Giving them directions to a secret party he might be having..
    • just talking.. what else?
    • Talking about you
  • Question of

    Recently, he’s been….

    • avoiding me
    • adoring me from afar
    • ignoring me
  • Question of

    If you get together…

    • Oh, it’s only a matter of time now….
    • then I’ll finally be able to walk next to him instead of five paces behind.
    • WHO SAYS WE’LL EVER GET TOGETHER? *sighs*
  • Question of

    Your biggest fantasy about him is where…

    • we marry!
    • ..he remembers my name.
    • he talks to you like a normal person.
  • Question of

    Does he make a lot of eye contact with you?

    • Not that I recall.
    • Not really.
    • Quite a bit yes.
    • It is contsant.
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    Does he often touch you in a casual way?

    • I don’t think so.
    • Yes, and it is creepy!
    • He does quite often.
    • He does all the time.
  • Question of

    Does he flirt with people in front of you?

    • Sometimes.
    • All the time.
    • Not that I notice.
    • No, quite the opposite.
  • Question of

    Does he talk to you a lot about things that interest you?

    • I don’t think he knows what those are.
    • No, he talks about himself mostly.
    • Sometimes.
    • Yes, he makes a point to do that.
  • Question of

    Does he get nervous around you?

    • I can’t tell.
    • Not at all.
    • Maybe a little.
    • Yes, he does.
  • Question of

    Does he talk about any of his exes around you?

    • No, but I don’t know him that well.
    • Yes, all the time.
    • Sometimes.
    • Not ever.
  • Question of

    Does he tease you?

    • Not that I can think of.
    • Yeah, and it is kind of mean.
    • Maybe a little.
    • Yes, in a cute way.
  • Question of

    Does he ask you a lot of questions?

    • About what?
    • No, he talks mostly about himself.
    • Sometimes.
    • All the time.
  • Question of

    Has he ever talked about going away together?

    • No.
    • Does his bedroom count as away?
    • Once or twice.
    • All the time.
  • Question of

    Does he say things that are meant to impress you?

    • I don’t think so.
    • Yeah, but in a really surface way.
    • Yeah, he does that a lot.
    • No, he is always himself.
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    Does he compliment you a lot?

    • No.
    • Yes, but just my appearance.
    • Sometimes.
    • Yes, quite often.
  • Question of

    Does he get jealous when you are with other people?

    • Not at all.
    • He acts it, but I can’t tell.
    • Yes, really jealous.
    • I don’t think so.
  • Question of

    Does he like and comment on your social media?

    • Not often.
    • Pretty much never.
    • Sometimes.
    • Yes, he does that often.
  • Question of

    Does he buy you a lot of presents?

    • No, he has never done that.
    • Not often.
    • Yes, he does it a lot.
    • He does it all the time.
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    How often does he text you during the day?

    • Never.
    • Pretty much never.
    • Sometimes.
    • All the time.
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    How much does he text you late at night?

    • Never.
    • All the time.
    • Pretty much never.
    • Sometimes.
  • Question of

    Do you make him laugh?

    • Not that I have noticed.
    • Not really.
    • Sometimes.
    • Yes, quite often.
  • Question of

    Does he ever call you ‘babe’ or ‘sweetie’?

    • Not ever.
    • Yeah, quite a bit.
    • Not usually.
    • Sometimes.
  • Question of

    Does he stare at you a lot?

    • He never does.
    • Yes. Creepy!
    • Sometimes.
    • Yes, but not in an obvious way.
  • Question of

    Does he ever tell you that he misses you?

    • No.
    • Yeah, but in a funny way
    • No, that would be unexpected.
    • Sometimes.

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